Dommes Punishing Subbies

[missinara]

Both Alexah and I have only been topping in the scene for about a year and a half. We're still figuring out how we like to top, and she recently asked me about what to do about a new sub who didn't check-in with her when he went out of town to visit family.

Also CCd in this email were two Domme friends: Sam and Bella.

I thought I'd share my answer

Comments

[skitabug]

I always think the punishment should fit the crime, so it makes the biggest impression possible. I loved your example about holding the re-written paper against the wall with his nose. I've done things like extended chastity for masturbating without permission, taking away all access to porn for other infractions, etc.

I tend to be more of a "carrot than stick" kind of girl, though (not that you're not ;). If you do this I'll give you this, it takes this many this to earn this, and so on. I'm with you in that I just don't tolerate misbehavior. There are WAAAAY too many subbies in the sea to put up with any crap!

But, if all else fails, there's always hot sauce handjobs!!!!

[missinara]

Hot sauce hand jobs?!? You are wicked. Brilliant idea! Hmmm....

[firebug71]

Miss M's punishments are always effective on me. I always find my self correcting mistakes I've made in the past. Thank you Miss M. I'm very lucky to have you.