word to the wise - don't get between him and his sister. don't try to fix it, don't try to mediate, and don't bother even trying to reply to her. she hates him, you're an extension of him. let it go.
and if anything she says about him is true... good luck. and I know you'll jump to his defense, but all I'm saying is that I would never, never say that kind of stuff about MY siblings if it wasn't 100% true. And I know plenty of moms that don't tell the kids they've been cheated on because they don't want to rip up the family. If she stuck around until mike was 18, then I'm guessing she was doing what she could, for him, until it was safe to do something for herself. But again, just speculating.
actually his dad didnt cheat on his mom, she cheated on him and assumed he did the same. she went to michigan for a month (family things) and he stayed home because he had work.. blah blah. another story. longer story, mike had another sister that died when he was 9, and she has yet to be the same since. makes sense, but she left mike and kevin with no warning whatsoever, just left a note and she was gone. alesha sided with mom and mike didnt side with anyone, just stayed with the one that didnt leave him. like i said, long huge story, but i wasnt even trying to get between them, just send a well wish. but you're right as to being an extension of him. though she only hated him when he sent an email saying he met me and we were getting married. meh.
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and if anything she says about him is true... good luck. and I know you'll jump to his defense, but all I'm saying is that I would never, never say that kind of stuff about MY siblings if it wasn't 100% true. And I know plenty of moms that don't tell the kids they've been cheated on because they don't want to rip up the family. If she stuck around until mike was 18, then I'm guessing she was doing what she could, for him, until it was safe to do something for herself. But again, just speculating.
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longer story, mike had another sister that died when he was 9, and she has yet to be the same since. makes sense, but she left mike and kevin with no warning whatsoever, just left a note and she was gone.
alesha sided with mom and mike didnt side with anyone, just stayed with the one that didnt leave him.
like i said, long huge story, but i wasnt even trying to get between them, just send a well wish. but you're right as to being an extension of him.
though she only hated him when he sent an email saying he met me and we were getting married.
meh.
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