Soul searching

[missquoted]

Been doing a lot of soul searching, my husband and I. After a lot of thought and mutual consideration we have deicded to separate. Our house will go up for sale sometime this week, being listed through a nice man & dear friend of ours. We decided to pursue these 2 courses of action because the financial "weight" (a.k.a. mortgage and bills) upon

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[full_of_baloney]

How brave and insightful! I wish the two of you the best of luck in your personal search and hope that whatever happens is the best for both of you.

[missquoted]

Thanks. It only makes sense. I only wish we would have realized all of this earlier. But I am a firm believer of things happening for a reason, so we shall see.

[chunkymunkey]

i'm feeling that right now. debating that the "financial situation" has taken control of my marriage completely. now it's all about making ends meet and him w/out work is killing me b/c he's not doing much of else either. i am feeling over-stressed. big time. that is a sensible solution you guys have reached. i hope my hubby and i can find something similar in which to keep our 2 children feeling loved.

[missquoted]

Funny how the times have changed eh? I can certainly empathize with families that run on one income. A whole lotta mouths and not a lotta food - sucks bigtime. Luckily for us, I feel that downsizing will serve as our catalyst of change.

I wish you well in finding a workable solution(s) that'll let you be the family you aspire to be.