I stumble

[missy_peepers]

So I think this morning, after reading his messages stating that in fact he was not coming to see me for the second Sunday in a row, is when I realized our relationship isn't moving in the right direction. I cried for about an hour, wondering what I need to do to improve this relationship. I don't know what I can do anymore. He won't talk to me. He

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[lttle_red_lotus]

I'm going through the same thing right now with my boyfriend...its so hard. We've been together for a year and 7 months now and its really wearing on me. We've seen eachother 5 times, which is not enough. And of those five times, I'm the one who has gone up to see him four times. Its frusturating having to chase after him to find out if he's coming to see me. As I'm typing this, I'm trying to contact him to see if he's coming tomorrow.

I know what you're going through, I don't have any advice for you because I myself don't know what to do. All I can tell you is to hang in there if you really want to be together. I know how you feel about not knowing if he's interested anymore.

[exquisitegeek]

This sounds very much like an ex-boyfriend of mine. I thought I cared very very much for him, and he said he felt the same way. We saw eachother when it was convenient. He never called me; he never offered to go do anything with me. I was always the one trying to call him and track him down, and if I didn't, who knows how long it would have been before I heard from him. He wasn't reliable, and I was discontent