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[missy_peepers]

He told me he thinks we need a break. Because he doesn't know how to deal with the fact that I'm sad and upset when he breaks his plans with me. Just come see me. How hard is that? So we're doing this break thing. But against my will. It's all probably going to end, and I'm not even close to being ready for that. I haven't had time to break down

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[prismperfect]

"He told me he thinks we need a break. Because he doesn't know how to deal with the fact that I'm sad and upset when he breaks his plans with me."

WTF? He doesn't know how to deal? No offense, but that's just inconsiderate and asinine. You have every right to be upset. I know, I was there in high school, feeling sorry for myself sitting by the window waiting for hours for his car to come up the road when he said he'd be there, and then he didn't get it when I got upset the next day. It's fucked up to do to someone.

That's an odd reason for a break. You would think that he'd want to talk it out, he should understand why you're upset, it's a logical reason. I found that when they say they want a break, they're usually cheating. It's a hard thing to admit but it's always a possibility.

Use the break to figure out what's good for you, if you could do better, if you need him after all, etc. It's rough, but there's always something better out there.