Boys are weird. Since I've been 12, all I've been told is that they're after sex. But, over the last few months all I've wanted was sex and the boys run away after a fuck or two, if that. What the hell
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Yeah I've been outta touch but I'm a hermit...oninofroFebruary 10 2006, 21:29:13 UTC
Well what can I say? You've been lied to. Often and repeatedly. Don't get me wrong; we like sex. A lot. Just as much as women do only for some odd reason we're allowed to vocalize and/or act on that desire more often.
I cannot speak for most boys or even some even though they're my friends and I've known them for a while but I can speak on what I want. In no particular order: peace of mind good food sex tasty drinks video games sex amusing/stupid things to do comfortable silences respect
Now to answer your question it may be that the casual hot sex has become in his mind just another one of those things. It could be so routine that it has become mundane. Alternatively it could be that he's really comfortable with the idea of falling asleep with you. No seriously. I'm sure that there are those that you want to fuck but you wouldn't want them staying in your bed afterward.
but he and i are now actually having a casual thing, i think. we've been friends for 21 years, and we're still friends. no jealousies, no expectations, and mostly we just cuddle and talk, which is what we both need. sex isn't really necessary, just nice if it happens.
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i don't understand it either ;)
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but i can't really complain. he and i had a chat and things are beter now. we're better off as friends anyway.
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i'll never know how you dated some of the girls you did. especially since some things about them was as obvious as their hair.
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I dont have that problem anymore.
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there is hope!
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You've been lied to. Often and repeatedly. Don't get me wrong; we like sex. A lot. Just as much as women do only for some odd reason we're allowed to vocalize and/or act on that desire more often.
I cannot speak for most boys or even some even though they're my friends and I've known them for a while but I can speak on what I want.
In no particular order:
peace of mind
good food
sex
tasty drinks
video games
sex
amusing/stupid things to do
comfortable silences
respect
Now to answer your question it may be that the casual hot sex has become in his mind just another one of those things. It could be so routine that it has become mundane. Alternatively it could be that he's really comfortable with the idea of falling asleep with you. No seriously. I'm sure that there are those that you want to fuck but you wouldn't want them staying in your bed afterward.
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but he and i are now actually having a casual thing, i think. we've been friends for 21 years, and we're still friends. no jealousies, no expectations, and mostly we just cuddle and talk, which is what we both need. sex isn't really necessary, just nice if it happens.
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Well keep that in mind and you two should be very good for each other a nd can take care of those needs.
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come see me at work sometime, i haven't seen you in ages. second cup bank and slater, monday to thursday evenings.
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