My advice - do not let someone use your computer who is angry with you, especially (as you have said) if she is borderline personality disorder.
Mon frere, you have gone above and beyond for her. You owe her _no_ money. You do not need to let her use your computer, and frankly, if you have anything unlocked in there (emails, web history, paypal, student loan info, etc etc) I would say it is _not_ safe. Let her go to the library or to an internet cafe or kinkos (do you have those?) if she needs to get online.
Do you have a tenants rights organization locally, which could help meet with you both and mediate? This could get messier in a hurry.
And its your place, you dont owe her a thing. There is no reason why you 'need' to refund her money. She stayed at your place, in your space, used your utilities for what little they were paid for, and yeh...you dont owe her a thing.
Damnit, send this chick down to Phoenix AZ and I'll stomp some sense into her otherwise empty skull.
As I say, she did ALREADY give her month of May because she knew she would let go her job. She was even suppose to sign up the rent with me and stay until July 2010. That was decided a month ago. And then because of conflicts, SHE decided to leave.
As I CAN`T give her May`s rent back, I told her she can stay until June but since, she decide to leave in May, she want her money back. I want to be just and fair...
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Mon frere, you have gone above and beyond for her. You owe her _no_ money. You do not need to let her use your computer, and frankly, if you have anything unlocked in there (emails, web history, paypal, student loan info, etc etc) I would say it is _not_ safe. Let her go to the library or to an internet cafe or kinkos (do you have those?) if she needs to get online.
Do you have a tenants rights organization locally, which could help meet with you both and mediate? This could get messier in a hurry.
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And its your place, you dont owe her a thing. There is no reason why you 'need' to refund her money. She stayed at your place, in your space, used your utilities for what little they were paid for, and yeh...you dont owe her a thing.
Damnit, send this chick down to Phoenix AZ and I'll stomp some sense into her otherwise empty skull.
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As I CAN`T give her May`s rent back, I told her she can stay until June but since, she decide to leave in May, she want her money back.
I want to be just and fair...
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