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(The composition contains two points of view: my friend and me because that’s a contradictory question)
Everyone may ask this question. All generations in all the times try to answer this question and nowadays nobody can tell you the final point of it. Everyone has his own position on this question. That’s why I will try to write a composition dedicated to the positive and negative sides of marriage& single life. In addition, in the end I’ll try to describe you my own opinion to this problem. It doesn’t matter whether you agree with my view on the problem or not because I think if you have your own hard position it is great!
Let’s say you are single and young. From the one hand, it is great. You are free from everything what is around you. You can do everything you like and make your own decisions without thinking about consequence. You live and make the mistakes, try to seize as many experiments as it possible. It helps you to be wiser. You are open for new opportunities, beginnings and experiments. You should understand that it is the only period of your life when you have enough time to improve yourself, to study and live without cares. It is time of your wishes and desires.
Therefore, to my point of view if you are young you shouldn’t try to get married. Because eventually you will get married and nobody will take it from you. The marriage has it’s own disadvantages and limitations and I think there’s no need in it for a young person because it limits freedom and time which is always not enough.
However, from the other hand being single is bad if you are lonely. In addition, when you are young it happens very often because you always feel the lack of love especially if your friends have their private life. Many wrong things are filling your head and complexes appear. You begin blaming yourself for everything: appearance, behavior and other. Your self-esteem decreases. In this situation, my only advice is to be busy and have as little free time as it’s possible because it helps to distract of stupidities.
Let’s imagine you are in the middle-aged and single. There are more disadvantages then advantages especially for woman. It is time for having a family: husband and children. It is time to care not for yourself only but also for the others, I mean your family. In addition, in this time being single is not so good and you shouldn’t tend to it. However, nowadays it is difficult to be that sometimes because to find your real love and a man who will worth this love is very hard today too.
As I’ve said marriage has it’s own disadvantages and limitations. If you are married and you have a family everything you do, you do for them (your family). Your life becomes ordinary: work, domestic works and problems, husband and children who need your attention and care, no (or little) time for yourself and your dreams. It is time when you make wishes, dreams of your children to come true.
So, which is better, being married or single? My hard position is that when you are young you can go out with someone, live for your satisfaction but not to tend getting married. However, not to be single all your life! The marriage is a basis of society and everyone needs it. When you have a loving, careful and understandable husband and children, your life is interesting and happy. It is so wonderful to spend time with your family, go out-of-doors together and just live! Being single is first of all to be alone without any support, protection and to be put on the shelf, needless and angry at the whole world.
I would prefer to realize my life without time waste. And being single is not my aim. It is wonderful to love and to be loved!
But, there is also another opinion and I would like to present a position of my best friend who is a little bit older and she really wanted me to insert the following piece into my composition because,( and I think that is really important) we were arguing on this question.
I have to mention that the following text belongs her pen (author’s rights, you know…)
“What’s better: being married or not?
The answer to this question could be very strange but typical for some people as well: being married is great! Each girl is dreaming about a wedding dress and all this wedding stuff, but a woman who had been married for some time would say something like: “My Gosh!!! Marriage is disgusting!!! It takes all of you and doesn’t give anything back” and she would be completely right from her side! So, what are we, girls, suppose to do? Should we dream about a handsome prince (husband potentially) on a white horse or should we follow all this feminism stuff and never being married? The answer, to my opinion is clear: the only thing we have to do is to wait a little bit unless we meet a “men of life” (but it sounds more like a fairy-tale thing) until we find out that we’re ready, ready for having a family! However, here’s another problem: how do we know that was him? We’re not supposed to make a mistake because mistake like that can cost a lot and we don’t like pricy things! We should be patient a care more about us and our future then about marriage, children and family.
When I was younger, my mother used to say something like I should that I think of myself first. I agree, but what about family, what about love? I can’t really answer today, but I hope I’ll have a perfect experience in that field. An ideal is like:” met each other, had a great family, children and died at the same day. ” Sounds funny, doesn’t it? Doesn’t sound realistic at all. But no one can forbid dreaming. Who knows what are we expected by in the future? Love, passions and probably marriage…someday, but by now let’s just live and have fun, let’s try to find good things in bad, let’s learn to be happier when we’re lonely and prepare for the future life with our handsome smart and perfect husbands!!! There is no answer as I’ve realized: everyone should decide up to himself and choose his own way!”
You see, these points of view are different but not opposite that’s why I’ll give you the only one advice: FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
(The composition contains two points of view: my friend and me because that’s a contradictory question)
Everyone may ask this question. All generations in all the times try to answer this question and nowadays nobody can tell you the final point of it. Everyone has his own position on this question. That’s why I will try to write a composition dedicated to the positive and negative sides of marriage& single life. In addition, in the end I’ll try to describe you my own opinion to this problem. It doesn’t matter whether you agree with my view on the problem or not because I think if you have your own hard position it is great!
Let’s say you are single and young. From the one hand, it is great. You are free from everything what is around you. You can do everything you like and make your own decisions without thinking about consequence. You live and make the mistakes, try to seize as many experiments as it possible. It helps you to be wiser. You are open for new opportunities, beginnings and experiments. You should understand that it is the only period of your life when you have enough time to improve yourself, to study and live without cares. It is time of your wishes and desires.
Therefore, to my point of view if you are young you shouldn’t try to get married. Because eventually you will get married and nobody will take it from you. The marriage has it’s own disadvantages and limitations and I think there’s no need in it for a young person because it limits freedom and time which is always not enough.
However, from the other hand being single is bad if you are lonely. In addition, when you are young it happens very often because you always feel the lack of love especially if your friends have their private life. Many wrong things are filling your head and complexes appear. You begin blaming yourself for everything: appearance, behavior and other. Your self-esteem decreases. In this situation, my only advice is to be busy and have as little free time as it’s possible because it helps to distract of stupidities.
Let’s imagine you are in the middle-aged and single. There are more disadvantages then advantages especially for woman. It is time for having a family: husband and children. It is time to care not for yourself only but also for the others, I mean your family. In addition, in this time being single is not so good and you shouldn’t tend to it. However, nowadays it is difficult to be that sometimes because to find your real love and a man who will worth this love is very hard today too.
As I’ve said marriage has it’s own disadvantages and limitations. If you are married and you have a family everything you do, you do for them (your family). Your life becomes ordinary: work, domestic works and problems, husband and children who need your attention and care, no (or little) time for yourself and your dreams. It is time when you make wishes, dreams of your children to come true.
So, which is better, being married or single? My hard position is that when you are young you can go out with someone, live for your satisfaction but not to tend getting married. However, not to be single all your life! The marriage is a basis of society and everyone needs it. When you have a loving, careful and understandable husband and children, your life is interesting and happy. It is so wonderful to spend time with your family, go out-of-doors together and just live! Being single is first of all to be alone without any support, protection and to be put on the shelf, needless and angry at the whole world.
I would prefer to realize my life without time waste. And being single is not my aim. It is wonderful to love and to be loved!
But, there is also another opinion and I would like to present a position of my best friend who is a little bit older and she really wanted me to insert the following piece into my composition because,( and I think that is really important) we were arguing on this question.
I have to mention that the following text belongs her pen (author’s rights, you know…)
“What’s better: being married or not?
The answer to this question could be very strange but typical for some people as well: being married is great! Each girl is dreaming about a wedding dress and all this wedding stuff, but a woman who had been married for some time would say something like: “My Gosh!!! Marriage is disgusting!!! It takes all of you and doesn’t give anything back” and she would be completely right from her side! So, what are we, girls, suppose to do? Should we dream about a handsome prince (husband potentially) on a white horse or should we follow all this feminism stuff and never being married? The answer, to my opinion is clear: the only thing we have to do is to wait a little bit unless we meet a “men of life” (but it sounds more like a fairy-tale thing) until we find out that we’re ready, ready for having a family! However, here’s another problem: how do we know that was him? We’re not supposed to make a mistake because mistake like that can cost a lot and we don’t like pricy things! We should be patient a care more about us and our future then about marriage, children and family.
When I was younger, my mother used to say something like I should that I think of myself first. I agree, but what about family, what about love? I can’t really answer today, but I hope I’ll have a perfect experience in that field. An ideal is like:” met each other, had a great family, children and died at the same day. ” Sounds funny, doesn’t it? Doesn’t sound realistic at all. But no one can forbid dreaming. Who knows what are we expected by in the future? Love, passions and probably marriage…someday, but by now let’s just live and have fun, let’s try to find good things in bad, let’s learn to be happier when we’re lonely and prepare for the future life with our handsome smart and perfect husbands!!! There is no answer as I’ve realized: everyone should decide up to himself and choose his own way!”
You see, these points of view are different but not opposite that’s why I’ll give you the only one advice: FOLLOW YOUR HEART!