There are other ways to have children besides your husband biologically having them. You can get a good donor. And vasectomies can get reversed. You can also adopt. Those are options. If you want children, I encourage you not to shut out all avenues. Talk to your husband. See how HE feels about it. I have learned that the urge to have children tends not to just go away--it's a very strong drive and desire, and you shouldn't say no until you're really okay with it--and talk to your husband. He could be feeling the same way.
We have talked about it... And I know it would be very difficult for me to have kids anyways because of some complications that I have had. I'm just having pangs today becauase of finding out the one guy I work with is now expecting.
It wouldn't be wise for John and I to have kids right now anyways, cause we're just too busy, and it wouldn't be fair to the child
I'm so sorry... I wish I could give you a big hug! I'd love to hang out sometime... give me a call when you have a spare hour or two and I'll bring Sebastian and Caeleb! :)
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It wouldn't be wise for John and I to have kids right now anyways, cause we're just too busy, and it wouldn't be fair to the child
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