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Jun 11, 2007 13:12

Sometimes life just isn't fair, me thinks ( Read more... )

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call_me_ps June 11 2007, 17:55:45 UTC
There are other ways to have children besides your husband biologically having them. You can get a good donor. And vasectomies can get reversed. You can also adopt. Those are options. If you want children, I encourage you not to shut out all avenues. Talk to your husband. See how HE feels about it. I have learned that the urge to have children tends not to just go away--it's a very strong drive and desire, and you shouldn't say no until you're really okay with it--and talk to your husband. He could be feeling the same way.

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mistigger33 June 11 2007, 19:12:09 UTC
We have talked about it... And I know it would be very difficult for me to have kids anyways because of some complications that I have had. I'm just having pangs today becauase of finding out the one guy I work with is now expecting.

It wouldn't be wise for John and I to have kids right now anyways, cause we're just too busy, and it wouldn't be fair to the child

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grania_wench June 12 2007, 01:19:33 UTC
*hugs and just being there for you*

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firelily3223 June 13 2007, 12:45:23 UTC
I'm so sorry... I wish I could give you a big hug! I'd love to hang out sometime... give me a call when you have a spare hour or two and I'll bring Sebastian and Caeleb! :)

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