Someone actually called you to tell you that they'd be ignoring you??
They need to take a time-out and put their big boy (or girl) panties on.
Relationships come and go all the time. Sometimes they break up completely, without any word. Sometimes the parties own up to their neurosis and admit what went wrong. And sometimes, someone sits in a corner and sticks out their tongues. Sheesh.
Well no, they didn't call and say ' we're going to be ignoring you'. It was slightly more politely phrased in a ' we're going to be kicking people out of our camp area more often, and you're people; we're going to have a 'closed camp' sort of thing and you're not invited ; y'know how you used to be a friend of the household? Well we decided we're not doing the friend thing any more.'
Actually, the last is the most accurate. Said person is currently having issues, and maybe 'discovering' themselves... or something. Person was kinda... standoffish? huffy? at me when I was saying goodbye on Sunday morning. Since I later discovered that I'd accidentally miffed someone Saturday night without meaning to, when Person called I asked if the standoffish was personal, and they hemmed and hawed and didn't really reply.
Well, as to the one... I wouldn't say "miffed" so much as... we felt like we were intruding on a private party. I know that wasn't the intent. But now that you mention it, I'm ignoring you! =P Okay, so I'm not. But I had to say it. =)
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They need to take a time-out and put their big boy (or girl) panties on.
Relationships come and go all the time. Sometimes they break up completely, without any word. Sometimes the parties own up to their neurosis and admit what went wrong. And sometimes, someone sits in a corner and sticks out their tongues. Sheesh.
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Actually, the last is the most accurate. Said person is currently having issues, and maybe 'discovering' themselves... or something. Person was kinda... standoffish? huffy? at me when I was saying goodbye on Sunday morning. Since I later discovered that I'd accidentally miffed someone Saturday night without meaning to, when Person called I asked if the standoffish was personal, and they hemmed and hawed and didn't really reply.
Which was just great .
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