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[mithgarian]

I've been hanging out with an old friend from high school a lot recently, and I think I'm starting to like her. I had a crush on her in high school, but we were different people back then. This is the first time since March that I've felt this comfortable and content around a girl, but I'm not sure if I should continue to indulge my feelings. She

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[light_maddie]

What differing views on sex? Like, does she never want to have any or something?

[mithgarian]

I have no problems with sex. She, on the other hand, won't go beyond making out with a guy. I'm not sure how far she'd go in a serious relationship, but from what I understand, she's never really had one. So, no one knows about that. I do know she plans on waiting till marriage for sex.

[light_maddie]

That shouldn't be a serious issue...

I mean, I was planning on waiting until marraige for sex, then Thomas came along... and it didn't seem that important anymore. *giggle*

If you like her, and she makes you happy already- without sex- isn't that enough for a good relationship? I mean, companionship is like 200 times more important to me than sex- if Thomas and I stopped, I would just masterbate a lot more, not break up with him or anything.

[mithgarian]

I don't have a problem with sex, i.e., I don't care if I get it or not. I'm not addicted to it like you, Madeline. :P I just know that every relationship this girl has been in has ended b/c she refuses to do more than make out. I'm sure I can control myself, that's not a problem. I'm in a situation right now that will not be posted to my journal. That situation is why I'm having so much trouble deciding what to do.