Wow. Wow. While I respect your decision... I don't know.. Perhaps this is not the right time? I know, myself, I would not want you to.. but It may not be the best time for you to have a child.. but also, I've known girls who have had an abortion who still regret it to this day. I don't envy you. The decision you must make. It's a tough one.
All men are asses when it comes to women getting pregnant.. I had a miscarriage and the guy I was with ( my ex-fiancee) was like in denial and saying that there was no way I would of been pregnant.... but I was... I was only 18 and scared. But babies are the best things to have in your life.
Take care honey! When I got pregnant my ex treated me like shit. He hit me so hard I lost the baby... don't let that happen to you.
It seems hard to understand but the best thing for you and that baby is to stay away from him.. if he is talking about abortion.
My ex used to tell me he had a "rusty wire coat hanger" to take care of my baby... and then ended up punching me enough he didn't need anything else.
I have a beautiful little girl out of our relationship and I know just as well as any other mommie that lil babies are a blessing.. find what you want outta life and go for it. I just turned 18 in May and my lil girl is 2 and a half... take care of urself and ur baby.. remember happy stuff.. not the shit :( Good Luck Doll!
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Take care... I was in your shoes once.
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It seems hard to understand but the best thing for you and that baby is to stay away from him.. if he is talking about abortion.
My ex used to tell me he had a "rusty wire coat hanger" to take care of my baby... and then ended up punching me enough he didn't need anything else.
I have a beautiful little girl out of our relationship and I know just as well as any other mommie that lil babies are a blessing.. find what you want outta life and go for it. I just turned 18 in May and my lil girl is 2 and a half... take care of urself and ur baby.. remember happy stuff.. not the shit :( Good Luck Doll!
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