Ok, so here's the latest with the online dating thing.... and I'll just lay out the FACTS, because I need some opinions, and I don't want anyone to be swayed by what I already think
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this is too complicated for an ABC poll. Is there any reason that, he wanted me to know how it felt to not trust your partner. would be a reasonable thing to expect him to do???
I mean, that is a pretty convoluted explanation for said set of circumstances, but some people do think that way. If he had a reason to do something like that, and I confess that I've been so out of LJ for the past year that maybe I should know, but I don't, and if you don't feel like reiterating said circumstances, feel free not to feel obliged to, but... if all that, then maybe... just maybe.
Ok, I've already said this, but I'm going to say it again...
There are two ways to look at this. Either Chad was trying to cheat (which is bad) or he did it to intentionally hurt you (which honestly, is pretty much just as bad. If it's the first, then thanks for all the lip service. If it's the second? Well, you just don't INTENTIONALLY hurt someone. I am far from encouraging you to break up... just know that while you may be flirty (sometimes a little extra flirty ) you have never INTENTIONALLY hurt him. Make him realise that.
I call bullshit just because I know no man is smart enough to make a fake profile in the hopes his wife will find it and then "know how he feels". Bullshit. Either way I hope you guys can work through this. Not even for the kids. For yourselves. I am not one to say fuck it and leave him, because I know first hand how hard that is to really do. And maybe that's not even the best chioce in this situation. Whatever your choice, and whatever you do, I will back you all the way. I know you are not a stupid, or weak woman. And I know you will make the decision that is best for you, and your children. ::hugs::
Its a TWIN thing.....consciousdreamAugust 23 2005, 02:57:45 UTC
OH MY GOD miranda...i went through the same fucking bullshit with josh like 2 years ago...DO YOU REMEMBER!?!?!...maybe i didn't know you yet...but it was when i was pregnant with b....i think...maybe it was right after i had b...i dont remember...but i freaked the fuck out on him....seriously!...then he pulled his head out of his ass and uh...now we're okay...and married...and such...but let me find some bullshit like that again and his balls are mine!
On a happier note...maybe....I love you...and i miss you and those munchkins...I'm sorry chad's a cock and you can call me WHENEVER you need me <3 815-988-9850
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I mean, that is a pretty convoluted explanation for said set of circumstances, but some people do think that way. If he had a reason to do something like that, and I confess that I've been so out of LJ for the past year that maybe I should know, but I don't, and if you don't feel like reiterating said circumstances, feel free not to feel obliged to, but... if all that, then maybe... just maybe.
but it's a stretch.
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There are two ways to look at this. Either Chad was trying to cheat (which is bad) or he did it to intentionally hurt you (which honestly, is pretty much just as bad. If it's the first, then thanks for all the lip service. If it's the second? Well, you just don't INTENTIONALLY hurt someone.
I am far from encouraging you to break up... just know that while you may be flirty (sometimes a little extra flirty ) you have never INTENTIONALLY hurt him. Make him realise that.
And now I must pee.
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On a happier note...maybe....I love you...and i miss you and those munchkins...I'm sorry chad's a cock and you can call me WHENEVER you need me <3 815-988-9850
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