Dissapointed...

[mobileoak]

Having moved to Seattle close to 5 months ago, I'm still finding it rather difficult to establish meaningful relationships here. And I'm really starting to wonder if meaningful is even the right term to use. If it can be applied to any but the most rare friendships

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*waving frantically back*

[egana]

I'm sorry you feel unremembered, unmissed, and unappreciated. You care certainly remembered! We miss you in our small group, I miss you smiley face at church, your insights, and your genuine enjoyment of our.

The smallest still asks about Carlo and Bef, and when he can come play again at your house. We certainly miss you both.

Also, I wouldn't read your blogs if I wasn't interested in you guys anymore. I guess I just need to comment more, so that you know that I am thinking of you both, and praying for your transitions multitudinous: your new church, your new friands, you poor missing kitty (whom I am glad you found), that uncomfortable conversation where the lady made you feel 1 inch tall and accused you of not being supportive of Beth in her fertility struggles, your new job, your new apartemnt, the wisdom to decide "to buy or not to buy" a house in the area...

Anyway, our silence does not neccessarily imply loss of love... instead, perhaps laziness at best, or, at worst, rudeness.

*grin*

Re: *waving frantically back*

[egana]

your genuine enjoyment of ouy small fry...

Re: *waving frantically back*

[jadeejf]

Hehe- I sent you my comment before I saw this post! Well, all the same back to you guys! :) Tell the munchkins that we miss them too!

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[mobileoak]

I miss you guys too. And a great many other people in C-U. Thanks for commenting.

[jadeejf]

If it makes you feel any better... I'm in your proximity! All the time.

But I know how you feel (obviously, considering this week's happenings on my end on the friendships thing). I'm very glad that we have church here to help mitigate some things here, and I have high hopes for the folks there. But I'm sorry that you're lonely. I love you! And not just because I'm in your proximity ;)

[mathuaerknedam]

Sorry. I am, like everyone else in my family, amazingly relationally passive. Sadly, I don't tend to notice. People, like the objects around me, tend to be subjected to "out of sight out of mind". Though the things I see everyday turn invisible too, I'm not sure how that works...

To be honest, almost all of my interactions with in absentia friends happens in LJ. And since neither of us tends to be prolific posters, there isn't a lot of interaction happening.

[mathuaerknedam]

But, to start a new conversation...

What are you doing at Amazon? Maybe I missed a post, but I really have no idea what you do, other than that it requires you to carry a pager.