Being a proactive person is difficult

[mocha_latte88]

Actually I'm in no mood for updating the journal. I just read some inspiring stories and quotes from "7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey. Ugh, I'm not a teenager anymore, you see. Does it make me too late reading the book for teenage readers? Okay, I admit that it's not my own willingness to read that book; instead, it's for an

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[molapi]

Like the quotes ^^
Katany kliatan simple tp cukup punya arti =D

And I think I'm a reactive person xD
Harus diubah..tp prubahan itu ga mudah ehehe
Ganbatte...=D

[mocha_latte88]

there are a lot of simple but meaningful quotes XD.
tanpa sadar, kita sering jadi reaktif... tapi sesudahnya kita nyesel sendiri kadang-kadang T__T.
Ngubah itu susah banget... emang nggak bisa 100% jadi proaktif kayaknya.. considering our temper and emo >.>.

[sundaymorning13]

aaaaaaah!!!! I''ve ever read that quote! I'm a quote lover you know ;D
that's a good quote indeed

when I was reading the characteristics of reactive person....
A reactive person easily gets pissed off - check
tends to blame others - check
says things that they'd regret later - check
waits until something happens to them - check
changes only when it's needed - cheeeeeck

I sooo have those all ;_;
Hi. I'm reactive person lol

good you have the willing to change, keep it up!

[mocha_latte88]

actually there are still some characteristics of a reactive person, but I was too lazy to type them it lol.
and almost all of my attitudes match them... I feel so bad.
thank you, I will ♥

[shapika]

Aww.. Nobody perfect.. But we can still be ourselves :)
Deshou..?
;)

[mocha_latte88]

yes, I agree♥
as much as I can, I want to change the reactive part without losing myself ^^.

[cerulean_ai]

I think... I'm considered as a reactive person. Especially when I read that "says things that they'd regret later" part. D:

And I've heard that quote from my teacher! :D Back in the middle school, she said those words to us when we just started in 9th grade. Such a wonderful quote that makes all of us understand and appreciate every tick of time. ♥

Good luck, anyway. ♥

[mocha_latte88]

yes, becoming a proactive person really requires more sacrifices. We must be able to forgive, not to throw tantrum on ppl, etc.
I rarely pay attention to quotes, but that quote really caught my eyes.. XD

thank youuu ♥

[violca]

i think...i'm in the reactive person. that's a bad thing ._.

love the quote(s?) btw.

To comprehend the value of one year
just ask the students who failed their entrance exams

yang ini so true xD harusnya ada satu lagi: to comprehend the value of three year, kist ask the students who failed their national exams lol.

[mocha_latte88]

let's become a proactive person from now on :D... well even though I don't think it can be that instant.

lol? three years is a pain...
we can always add whatever to that quote; to comprehend the value of thirty minutes, five days, etc etc...
*ngaco*

[violca]

instant change would be awesome though :D

xDD to comprehend the value of ten years, just ask arashi how will they feel if they were not this successful /maksa+ngaco berat

[mocha_latte88]

lol.. that's a creative one xDDD