i suppose i see wearing "sexy" clothing as something that can bring confidence - though this confidence comes from attention from males or jealousy from other females so i see what you're saying. i suppose sometimes what needs to be differentiated is what you need vs. what society needs do you need a man to validate you or is it your image reflected in society that you are worried about? and i don't think it's a bad thing [though it's unfortunate when it's a need instead of a want] it's hard to break away from the images we grew up with..
i have similar questions about jealousy because i know that i am a rather jealous person though unfortunately my lack of trust is often validated.. though many animals are "biologically" monogomous so don't use evolution as a defense against society.. i mean really, either could be said to be artifical constructs.. i really comes down to personal decisions if what you want is a single person, then great if you want more than one person, that's great too what's important is the consent of all parties involved.. you
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as something that can bring confidence -
though this confidence comes from attention from males
or jealousy from other females
so i see what you're saying.
i suppose sometimes what needs to be differentiated is
what you need vs. what society needs
do you need a man to validate you
or is it your image reflected in society that you are worried about?
and i don't think it's a bad thing
[though it's unfortunate when it's a need instead of a want]
it's hard to break away from the images we grew up with..
i have similar questions about jealousy
because i know that i am a rather jealous person
though unfortunately my lack of trust is often validated..
though many animals are "biologically" monogomous
so don't use evolution as a defense against society..
i mean really, either could be said to be artifical constructs..
i really comes down to personal decisions
if what you want is a single person, then great
if you want more than one person, that's great too
what's important is the consent of all parties involved..
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and i do not yet have the answers, i think i wont have them until i grow closer to death and eventual rebirth. u know?
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