I wish I could take Prozac while breastfeeding

[mommyissa]

Natalie's dad & I have been getting along for almost a whole day. Lately that's nearly a record. He says I'm a crazy psycho bitch because I think my baby is more important than having a social life. According to him I am stupid, crazy, mean spirited and uncaring. You have all known me longer, is this me?
He says that "in real life" it is normal for

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[mommyissa]

Thanks for saying that, I think you & I have very similar values and I highly respect your opinion. You are so fortunate to be part of a real family where all parties love and respect each other.
Maybe someday we'll be a real family, I just hope he can get his act togetherr so she doesn't end up another kid with a step-dad. ( sorry if my spelling is bad, i'm feeding the baby, & typing with 1 hand.) I don't want to leave at this point, I want to bust ass to make this work.
Relationships have never been disposable to me. I hope this makes sense.

[mommyissa]

H, how did I get a friend like you? I know B loves me, I think he is very insecure, & afraid of showing his feelings...I used to be thesame way, ask D! I learned from him that you can't love someone unless you love yourself, & it's very important to make sure you show love.

[cantusbane]

I would have to agree with Bitterflower.

I know that I would personally be doing everything possible to make sure that my child was taken care of.

What has your family said about the way he's acting?
I know from experience that when my brother inlaw was acting like a dill hole, my dad pulled him aside to get him on the ball to straighten out his act.

Do you need your Big Brothers to have a talk with him?

[mommyissa]

My whole family and most of his are ready to kill him. The only reason it hasn't happened yet is because I'm preventing it. I'm trying so hard to keep peace, & show him family life by example, maybe he'll learn..? There are times when he's great to us, when his blood sugar is normal. But when he needs his insulin he completely changes, like Dr Jekyll & Mr. Hyde.
Honestly, there may come a time when I'll need you to have my back but for now, no. He hasn't hit me or anything & he's been faithful, so I'm trying to give this time, you know?

[cantusbane]

Hopefully he'll learn.

Understood, just let me know if you ever need a hand ok. I'll do my best to be there for ya, then of course you know that already.

[mommyissa]

thank you. It means a lot.

[riotmod]

Damn...don't know quite what to say. Well, first off, you're not in the wrong. When video/RPG games become more important that real life, there is a serious problem, much like a drug addiction.

Gimme a call,if ya need somebody to talk to.