I don't understand what you are saying I think. What is it that you are missing and why does your home help that? Can you "loose" the things that give you pain. Or is it that the memory is in the house?
There is nothing wrong with asking for help. Maybe it is alone time you need. To sort things out, to get things straight in your head and to make a plan. - and with that plan go around and ask for assistance.
....i am so thankful that you say that you don't understand what i'm saying... i know in this case it is because i haven't given the story, but oh so often i realize that people don't understand what i'm saying although they should... and they don't even say that they don't
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What you have has a name. It is called homesickness. It is what I have when I return from Crete. Although if I would to live there, life would probably be harder than in Holland. The love you feel from the people etc. is amazing.
You need time to feel "at home again". Those people might be able to help, you know make plans and go to movies.
You just feel kind of empty right now because you have left so much behind. You need to fill the void left behind. But that does not have to happen this moment. You can take your time to first heal a little.
But having people around is the key!
And I think I know how you feel when you are talking about something and you have the feeling they don't understand,...but they don't ask. You feel like they don't care.
They are busy in their mind with their own world. That hurts.
God yes.... that space needs to be filled.......! and although i got used to being home very quickly... since it is my home, you know, ...still... in my dreams i'm missing the flight home.. and.and i don't remember what happened this night in my dream. :D
there was a person, and i have realized i have not know anybody like that, and i'm afraid i never will.. and i am sorry i cannot use this moment that the world gave me...this person. you know... you get many people you like, many different people... and then there is one who you don't just like or understand, but... feel... in this understanding that overwhelms! ... i'm looking to fill this hole, too, although there's not much to fill since i didn't really get to know this person because of the strange fear i had.. nothing but music can fill this emptiness of not having what i didn't even have. ugh
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i am, kind of :) well, you could say i am slowly approaching the state of being fine! ... i on the other hand keep thinking about a post of yours... the one that ends with the letters RIP........... !!
That's good :) Ohh that one.. erm, my cousin's husband's brother just died on Monday. I'm not at all close to him, frankly speaking I don't really know him at all, but I've seen him a few times.. but I wasn't able to pay my respects to him.. I could have visited the hospital on Sunday but didn't cos I didn't expect him to die. And I think his funeral was today which I didn't attend. The thing that made me sad was how he died.. He would have been 21 next month..
:( 21!!!!! ... ... ... ... i just had my 21st birthday. a week ago. it's terrible! ... :( ...and unbelievable, that young people should die at all........
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What is it that you are missing and why does your home help that?
Can you "loose" the things that give you pain. Or is it that the memory is in the house?
There is nothing wrong with asking for help.
Maybe it is alone time you need. To sort things out, to get things straight in your head
and to make a plan. - and with that plan go around and ask for assistance.
You are never as alone as you seem!
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It is what I have when I return from Crete.
Although if I would to live there, life would probably be harder than in Holland. The love you feel from the people etc. is amazing.
You need time to feel "at home again".
Those people might be able to help, you know make plans and go to movies.
You just feel kind of empty right now because you have left so much behind. You need to fill the void left behind.
But that does not have to happen this moment. You can take your time to first heal a little.
But having people around is the key!
And I think I know how you feel when you are talking about something and you have the feeling they don't understand,...but they don't ask. You feel like they don't care.
They are busy in their mind with their own world.
That hurts.
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there was a person, and i have realized i have not know anybody like that, and i'm afraid i never will.. and i am sorry i cannot use this moment that the world gave me...this person. you know... you get many people you like, many different people... and then there is one who you don't just like or understand, but... feel... in this understanding that overwhelms! ... i'm looking to fill this hole, too, although there's not much to fill since i didn't really get to know this person because of the strange fear i had.. nothing but music can fill this emptiness of not having what i didn't even have. ugh ( ... )
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I hope you're alright :)
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well, you could say i am slowly approaching the state of being fine! ...
i on the other hand keep thinking about a post of yours... the one that ends with the letters RIP...........
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Ohh that one.. erm, my cousin's husband's brother just died on Monday. I'm not at all close to him, frankly speaking I don't really know him at all, but I've seen him a few times.. but I wasn't able to pay my respects to him.. I could have visited the hospital on Sunday but didn't cos I didn't expect him to die. And I think his funeral was today which I didn't attend. The thing that made me sad was how he died.. He would have been 21 next month..
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21!!!!!
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i just had my 21st birthday. a week ago.
it's terrible! ... :( ...and unbelievable, that young people should die at all........
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