I don't know if this makes sense or if is just plain stupid but what the hell...

[mooflay]

Sure it's possible to consciously observe the way you think and feel about certain things in order to try and bring about a desired change BUT... Is it really possible to change feelings. Like 'Love' for example, if you think or feel you are certain that you're 'in love' with someone, or something, then is it possible to force yourself to think or

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[mooflay]

Well someone was telling me how they felt about something and it was making them upset and I was trying to tell them that in time they way they are feeling may change and it just made me wonder if you can actually force yourself not to feel a certain way.

[devilsrope]

i think so. its almost like the whole will power thing. i guess it comes down to something similar to that. for example, i have a slight obsession with eating donuts at the moment, but i have the will power to stop the obsession because i realise i dont need it or something. hang on i dont make sense..... i get where u are coming from though.

[_lovepants]

It depends how strong the feeling is. sometimes feelings arn't just some kind of sensation u have in yr chest which is hard to change - sometimes feelings have memories and thoughts and.. i dont know, stuff attached to them. does that make sense?
I dont think you can force yourself out of love with someone, but eventually, to an extent, it can fade & you can 'fall out' or however you want to say it.
i think you can ignore things enough so they go away, like selina said, but sometimes if u ignore stuff too much it just sticks harder. depends on the emotion & the circumstance.

[_kato]

I think you'd stay in love with someone for as long as you want to, if you see they dont love you back, or treat you wellor whatever then you should come to terms with it, and it would take some time. But sometimes I think people like punishing themselves, or they dont WANT to move on, like they still have hopes or something, they still want to love that person.
I wonder if I'm guessing right what ur talking about or I'm right off the mark?
I love u! have fun at Blisssssss you lucky girl :D

[mooflay]

...what do you think Im talking about?

(Bliss N Eso was sick & I got a mad shirt but someone groped me in the croud! :0

[_kato]

Eww!! I hope you slapped that little biatch!
we should do something next weekend possibly?
Haha I dont wanna say...what if I'm wrong?!?!