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mooglosaurus

Feminist my ass

Feb 19, 2010 07:33

One of these big arguments again. The big inequality of chores in our couple. My hub helps out. He really does. But it still is what it is; helping out. I'm the brain, I think abou what needs to be done, when and how frequently.

The hub didn't buy it. He said that he did at least 75% of all chores. So we started to write them down. Well, HE started ( Read more... )

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nelene February 19 2010, 08:11:02 UTC

Tu sais quoi ? ça me fait penser à un horrible sentiment que j'ai ressenti il y a 2/3 ans. Rien de comparable avec ta situation car je vivais avec un connard ( ... )

mooglosaurus February 22 2010, 05:57:46 UTC

Ca va beaucoup mieux, on a trouvé des solutions, heureusement.
Mon homme est un boulet mais ça compense le fait que j'en suis un aussi :)

Mais ne t'inquiète pas, c'est pas un connard, et crois-moi, moi aussi je les reconnais de loin, moi aussi j'ai eu ma dose. Il manque juste de discipline mais maintenant ça devrait aller mieux ^^

Merci ma belle Hélène (tu sais que c'est le titre d'une chanson super connue en hollande, ça?)

mistressmarilyn February 19 2010, 09:43:07 UTC

Womanhood.

No wonder the word 'manhood' is swallowed up inside.

mooglosaurus February 22 2010, 05:58:16 UTC

Cue rolling eyes... yup yup...

Anyway, "manhood" is still smaller than "womanhood", right?

myhope February 19 2010, 16:04:37 UTC

note a joke dear, not at all ((hugs))

your body has been telling you what you already knew

now he knows, and can make a change...

love
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mooglosaurus February 22 2010, 05:59:41 UTC

Yeah, we developped new systems now.
I write all chores down that bug me or annoy me because they should be done quickly and we work with that list.

It helps me put things out of my mind for one and for two we can split more egally now.

Thanks for the hug!

salomeshymn February 20 2010, 17:35:48 UTC

Does he recognise now that he needs to do more? Are you doing better now? I came to this late... I'm hopeing you've resolved some of it already ( ... )

mooglosaurus February 22 2010, 06:01:23 UTC

chore-strike, what a good idea! I might get to that one day ^^

All is bette for now. He partially recognized it and partially said I fuzz too much, which is partially true :)

The love is there, so all should go well. We have a little booklet-system now, where I put down all chores that bug my mind. Then we go through the list and see who does what and also scrape some chores that are just my mind going woohoo!

Thank you for your good advice, sweet friend!

pauwoog February 27 2010, 11:23:08 UTC

zo herkenbaar!!
ik heb daar ook al aan gedacht om dat eens op te schrijven, maar ik weet de uitkomst al...

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