Thank you for gathering enough strength to write in her journal once again... I'm so sorry your family has to go through this and thank you for remembering her online friends as well.
even though i have lost almost all my relatives, i have never lost a spouse and can not imagine the pain you are enduring. i so wish there was something that i could do. please know that you and the kids are in my thoughts.
we would appreciate the occasional update about the kids. i know i will miss hearing about them. and you might find it helpful to actually come here and write a little bit. a lot of people, if not most, use livejournal to help them through some difficulty or another every day. it can be very therapeutic to come here and just let go and write down what you are feeling. so much easier than having to say it to someone's face. and you will find that 99% of the people here are very understanding and supportive.
i know she wont see in person and be there physcially as your children grow up however in spirit she will be there.
again, im am so terribly sorry for your loss.
she always spoke about her family and how much you all meant to her, just know that in your hearts she is with you and as time goes on she will remain in your hearts.
i wont say it will get easier because that is a lie. however the memories you have together will always be special.
You know, Moondaddy, we were here for Sonya and she was here for us. It may help you to let us be here for you, too.
I would love to offer a shoulder if you'd like. Sometimes it helps to talk about it to people who really and truly care and we do. Sonya was like a little sister to me, a dear niece. We had many long conversations about childrearing, role playing and just living life.
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we would appreciate the occasional update about the kids. i know i will miss hearing about them. and you might find it helpful to actually come here and write a little bit. a lot of people, if not most, use livejournal to help them through some difficulty or another every day. it can be very therapeutic to come here and just let go and write down what you are feeling. so much easier than having to say it to someone's face. and you will find that 99% of the people here are very understanding and supportive.
take care and take care of those lovely children.
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again, im am so terribly sorry for your loss.
she always spoke about her family and how much you all meant to her, just know that in your hearts she is with you and as time goes on she will remain in your hearts.
i wont say it will get easier because that is a lie. however the memories you have together will always be special.
she will forever be with you.
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I would love to offer a shoulder if you'd like. Sometimes it helps to talk about it to people who really and truly care and we do. Sonya was like a little sister to me, a dear niece. We had many long conversations about childrearing, role playing and just living life.
I still can't believe she's gone.
Don't be a stranger.
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