This time I'm guilty of lying by omission. I was trying to protect someone I knew and even someone I didn't at the same time and it backfired.
It seems to me that you would not have done such a thing if someone did not make you feel like you should. I don't really know all that your talking about. But someone brought you into their problems and then they got angry when you try to help? Whether it backfires or not they need to realize that it's partly their fault for bringing in a third party and in one way or another making you feel responsible. AAARRRGGG!!
Dick Clark's stroke? Wow...you DO have the power...you know...I have the ability to control rain...I PURPOSELY made it rain yesterday jsut so someone had to drive in 4 wheel!
Anyways...I agree with what Dana said...and I add that this seems to be a new spin on the old A.S.S situation. Know what I mean? Also, I think it would a great misfortune to those of us that are "ok" if you stopped being nice. I know I never could do that and such being the case, other self, I am nixing that plan. I think your latter theory posting non-issues would be the wiser. K?
(I am sorry your heart had to get stomped like this. It sucks.)
To you both. Thank you. But I'm guilty for allowing myself to be involved. I am not good at trying to keep everyone's secrets when there's feelings involved and risk of hurting people. Somehow something happens and I end up right in the middle of all of it, so I'm the biggest target. Lying, by whatever way...omission, unintentionally, to protect others...it's just what it is. And I'm not good at it. Nothing got misconstrued in what I read, it was verbatim...but like in elementary school when it goes from one person to the next 3 or 4...something goes terribly wrong and the story isn't what it was when it started. But because I was first in line, as Dana once said in a play, "It's ALL YOUR FAULT." Anyway. I'm just going to stay out of all of it so I can't be blamed for anymore. Next time someone starts talking about someone else to me, I'm not listening, I'll even be rude if I have to...I'm not doing this again.
We both got the short end of the stick in all this. Don't blame yourself; this was someone else's sociopathic bullshit that just got dumped on us. That's just how it goes sometimes. You try to help someone, but get shit on in return.
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I was trying to protect someone I knew and even someone I didn't at the same time and it backfired.
It seems to me that you would not have done such a thing if someone did not make you feel like you should. I don't really know all that your talking about. But someone brought you into their problems and then they got angry when you try to help? Whether it backfires or not they need to realize that it's partly their fault for bringing in a third party and in one way or another making you feel responsible. AAARRRGGG!!
Love you no matter.
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Anyways...I agree with what Dana said...and I add that this seems to be a new spin on the old A.S.S situation. Know what I mean? Also, I think it would a great misfortune to those of us that are "ok" if you stopped being nice. I know I never could do that and such being the case, other self, I am nixing that plan. I think your latter theory posting non-issues would be the wiser. K?
(I am sorry your heart had to get stomped like this. It sucks.)
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Thank you.
But I'm guilty for allowing myself to be involved.
I am not good at trying to keep everyone's secrets when there's feelings involved and risk of hurting people. Somehow something happens and I end up right in the middle of all of it, so I'm the biggest target. Lying, by whatever way...omission, unintentionally, to protect others...it's just what it is. And I'm not good at it.
Nothing got misconstrued in what I read, it was verbatim...but like in elementary school when it goes from one person to the next 3 or 4...something goes terribly wrong and the story isn't what it was when it started. But because I was first in line, as Dana once said in a play, "It's ALL YOUR FAULT."
Anyway. I'm just going to stay out of all of it so I can't be blamed for anymore.
Next time someone starts talking about someone else to me, I'm not listening, I'll even be rude if I have to...I'm not doing this again.
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