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(16:49:01) ladyneyhatesyou: hey hon, whats up?
(16:50:29) Snow: not much., you?
(16:50:45) ladyneyhatesyou: nada whole lot...just trying to survive the last few weeks of school...hehe
(16:51:01) Snow: yea
(16:51:26) Snow: i wasnt quite expecting you to IM me anytime soon. i figured from LJ you werent too happy with me...
(16:52:22) ladyneyhatesyou: i wanted to let you know that even tho keith has been being a jerk to you...i dont share his opinions...i even tried to talk him out of making some of the comments on your lj....hes so frustrating sometimes....
(16:52:45) Snow: ah. how are you and him doing anyway?
(16:53:10) ladyneyhatesyou: we have our goud days and bad days....the bad days are becoming more and more frequent....eh
(16:53:42) Snow: im sorry to hear that...
(16:54:01) Snow: i know that situation quite well...
(16:54:04) ladyneyhatesyou: its ok...i think he really needs to do some growing up, and that things might yet work out...but who knows
(16:54:06) Snow: with spike i mean...
(16:54:24) ladyneyhatesyou: i think for all of the two of them fighting that they are very similar to one another...
(16:54:39) Snow: i always knew that...
(16:54:47) ladyneyhatesyou: huggles
(16:54:52) Snow: hehe
(16:56:16) Snow: but in regards to what you said about his LJ comments. most of them lately haven't been jerkish to me. ive noticed alot of them have been toward spike. i think that spike hasnt been helping that at ALL tho. his comments go too far and its not necessary. ive tried to stophim, but he never listens.
(16:57:02) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...sometimes i think that there is nothing i can do to convince him to back off and cool down....i imagine it must be similar with you and spike
(16:57:18) Snow: yea
(16:57:32) Snow: then spike has to show all his friends so that they back him up.
(16:57:53) Snow: i probably should have been deleting them all, but i forget that i have that option in my own lj
(16:58:31) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...sometimes i dont want to let keith use my computer cuz i know he will react badly to things on there
(16:59:11) Snow: and with me not having internet except at my parents', i dont know comments are added until way later...
(16:59:30) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....blah sometimes boys are so frustrating
(16:59:43) Snow: i agree.
(16:59:44) Snow: hehe
(16:59:54) Snow: i havent seen either of you at vertex. whats up with that? avoiding me?
(17:00:08) ladyneyhatesyou: i havent had the money to go
(17:00:11) Snow: ah
(17:00:16) ladyneyhatesyou: im prolly gonna go around my bday
(17:00:21) Snow: whens that?
(17:00:28) ladyneyhatesyou: but keith seems to be very opposed to the idea
(17:00:29) ladyneyhatesyou: may 24
(17:00:38) Snow: probably because of e..
(17:00:39) Snow: *me
(17:00:56) ladyneyhatesyou: well he doesnt have to go if he doesnt want to...lol
(17:01:05) Snow: but you can just tell him this, spike NEVER goes. he wont. so he doesnt have to worry about that
(17:01:08) Snow: *shrugs*
(17:01:21) Snow: so he still hate me and think i'm a bitch? be honest
(17:01:53) ladyneyhatesyou: i know he hates spike *alot*...he really doesnt talk about you except in relation to spike....
(17:02:41) Snow: it would be cool if we could hang out sometime...you me and keith or just two of us. idk.
(17:03:41) ladyneyhatesyou: i dunno if keith would be ok with it....ill have to see how he acts if i bring your name up....but i wouldnt mind hanging out with you myself....i miss seeing you around school
(17:04:01) Snow: same here.
(17:04:40) ladyneyhatesyou: i feel so frustrated sometimes with all the drama keith and gen and michael and even spike stir up....i just wish everyone could be civil to each other
(17:05:44) ladyneyhatesyou: maybe im too idealistic
(17:06:00) Snow: im just like you.
(17:06:31) Snow: i mean, i did kinda start the comment war with my entry about you guys starting to date. but i was over it. i didnt mean to stir up trouble. then everyone took it too far..
(17:07:29) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....but i can understand how you would be hurt by he and i dating when he told you he had no intention of it...i know i certainly had no intention of it....(sometimes i even regret it) but i can understand how that would hurt your feelings
(17:07:39) Snow: so where is keith anyway?
(17:07:42) ladyneyhatesyou: at work
(17:07:52) Snow: ah
(17:07:59) Snow: which one he work at? henrietta?
(17:08:00) ladyneyhatesyou: he works like 40 hours a week...im so happy for him ^_^
(17:08:03) Snow: lol
(17:08:11) Snow: spike just got a job *gasp*
(17:08:13) ladyneyhatesyou: he actually works at a little deli place on park ave
(17:08:19) ladyneyhatesyou: wow...where?
(17:08:20) Snow: now i get to leech off him.
(17:08:21) Snow: lol
(17:08:23) Snow: oh
(17:08:29) Snow: a machine shop
(17:08:32) ladyneyhatesyou: thats cool
(17:08:45) Snow: hopefully he keeps it for a while..
(17:09:07) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....i worry about keith being able to hang on to a job too
(17:10:51) ladyneyhatesyou: omg...do you remember mark?
(17:11:29) Snow: yea...
(17:11:30) ladyneyhatesyou: hes engaged to alex
(17:11:35) ladyneyhatesyou: i found out today
(17:11:36) Snow: that was quick!
(17:11:39) ladyneyhatesyou: i know
(17:11:43) ladyneyhatesyou: i was like wtf?
(17:11:46) Snow: eh, to each their own.
(17:11:47) Snow: lol
(17:12:15) ladyneyhatesyou: im not normally one to judge people...but that just seems really fast paced to me
(17:12:40) Snow: i would probably jump in even faster if i really cared for the person.
(17:13:28) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....i just cant imagine being engaged again after the last 3 times i was...i so want to go slow and wait till im like 25
(17:14:47) Snow: ah
(17:14:56) Snow: how old are you now?
(17:14:58) ladyneyhatesyou: 20
(17:15:05) ladyneyhatesyou: ill be 21 tho in like 3 weeks
(17:15:12) Snow: ok
(17:16:29) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...i had some strange relationships....hehe
(17:16:41) Snow: as have i...
(17:16:46) ladyneyhatesyou: and of course my almost 2 years of singleness ^_^
(17:18:32) Snow: i probably would have been engaged at least once had fear nope poked its ugly head..
(17:20:01) ladyneyhatesyou: being engaged is sorta starnge. its like you know you are expected to do something, but all of those little fears, and all of those little dounts come up real quick....and it makes you really evaluate what *you* want....ii dont regret having been engaged...but i dont want to be engaged again anytime soon
(17:20:29) Snow: its just i was with him less than a month when it was brought up...
(17:20:46) ladyneyhatesyou: who?
(17:21:14) Snow: eh, doesnt matter.
(17:21:24) ladyneyhatesyou: keith?
(17:21:53) Snow: yea...
(17:22:27) ladyneyhatesyou: i thought so....he has said similar things to me...i sometimes dont really believe hes being honest
(17:23:42) Snow: what do you mean/
(17:24:54) ladyneyhatesyou: like he is always talking about getting married, and what *we* are going to be doing in the future....and how hes never been so sure about wanting to be with someone...blah blah blah....and he gets so pissed off at me if i dont say i love you every like 10 minutes....grr...(sorry that came out kinda vent-like) but ive been hurt so much before
(17:26:11) Snow: its okay
(17:27:57) ladyneyhatesyou: did he do the same thing to you?
(17:28:24) Snow: yea, but he and i have similar personalities, marrying young.
(17:28:41) Snow: so i quite enjoyed him having the same plan for the future..
(17:28:51) ladyneyhatesyou: ah i gotcha, maybe he really doesnt mean it then....
(17:29:07) Snow: yea
(17:29:25) Snow: spike thinks its 'ignorant' to want to marry young. so i know this isnt going to last...
(17:29:27) Snow: again...
(17:30:23) ladyneyhatesyou: you need to find someone who is gonna take care of you...i dont think spike or keith or any of those other dorks at school are capable of having a serious committed relationship
(17:30:33) ladyneyhatesyou: (i know thats what i need too)
(17:32:01) Snow: yet you're with keith...
(17:32:13) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah but he really loves me, at least i think he does
(17:32:14) Snow: so are you thinking its not going to last, or?
(17:32:32) ladyneyhatesyou: if he threatens my physical well being once more i will leave him
(17:32:44) Snow: wow, how does he threaten you/
(17:33:22) ladyneyhatesyou: eh, it doesn't really matter...i know hes got a lot of shit to sort thru
(17:34:51) Snow: yea, thast not good...
(17:35:05) Snow: was it over something trivial or something actually worth being mad?
(17:36:29) ladyneyhatesyou: he tells me that i am controlling because i asked him to give me at least a few hours notcie b4 he wants to disappear for a few days. he says that he needs to be able to come and go as he pleases (tho its my house, and he doesnt pay rent) and he gets mad when i ask him to pick up his dirty clothes....we always fight about real trivial stuff....its so annoying
(17:37:13) Snow: yea, same here...
(17:37:38) ladyneyhatesyou: blah boys are sooo lame!!!!!
(17:39:42) Snow: lol
(17:40:04) ladyneyhatesyou: ya know, a bunch of us girls should get together and have a girls night out ^_^
(17:41:31) Snow: i agree!
(17:41:38) Snow: you have my number and IM
(17:41:46) Snow: my email is mysticmermaid430@yahoo.com
(17:41:47) ladyneyhatesyou: i dont think i have your phone number
(17:41:50) Snow: i have to go to work now tho.
(17:41:55) Snow: 3136294
(17:41:58) ladyneyhatesyou: okies ^_^
(17:42:00) ladyneyhatesyou: ttyl hon
(17:42:05) Snow: well i thot you did since keith called me a few times from your phone
(17:42:12) Snow: but yea, i'll talk to you later..
(17:42:15) ladyneyhatesyou: ok
(17:42:18) ladyneyhatesyou: have a good night
(17:42:28) Snow: you too
(17:42:37) Snow: and i do hope things with keith work out for you...
(17:42:52) ladyneyhatesyou: thanks hon, i do love him you know...
(17:43:03) Snow: so do i
(16:50:29) Snow: not much., you?
(16:50:45) ladyneyhatesyou: nada whole lot...just trying to survive the last few weeks of school...hehe
(16:51:01) Snow: yea
(16:51:26) Snow: i wasnt quite expecting you to IM me anytime soon. i figured from LJ you werent too happy with me...
(16:52:22) ladyneyhatesyou: i wanted to let you know that even tho keith has been being a jerk to you...i dont share his opinions...i even tried to talk him out of making some of the comments on your lj....hes so frustrating sometimes....
(16:52:45) Snow: ah. how are you and him doing anyway?
(16:53:10) ladyneyhatesyou: we have our goud days and bad days....the bad days are becoming more and more frequent....eh
(16:53:42) Snow: im sorry to hear that...
(16:54:01) Snow: i know that situation quite well...
(16:54:04) ladyneyhatesyou: its ok...i think he really needs to do some growing up, and that things might yet work out...but who knows
(16:54:06) Snow: with spike i mean...
(16:54:24) ladyneyhatesyou: i think for all of the two of them fighting that they are very similar to one another...
(16:54:39) Snow: i always knew that...
(16:54:47) ladyneyhatesyou: huggles
(16:54:52) Snow: hehe
(16:56:16) Snow: but in regards to what you said about his LJ comments. most of them lately haven't been jerkish to me. ive noticed alot of them have been toward spike. i think that spike hasnt been helping that at ALL tho. his comments go too far and its not necessary. ive tried to stophim, but he never listens.
(16:57:02) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...sometimes i think that there is nothing i can do to convince him to back off and cool down....i imagine it must be similar with you and spike
(16:57:18) Snow: yea
(16:57:32) Snow: then spike has to show all his friends so that they back him up.
(16:57:53) Snow: i probably should have been deleting them all, but i forget that i have that option in my own lj
(16:58:31) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...sometimes i dont want to let keith use my computer cuz i know he will react badly to things on there
(16:59:11) Snow: and with me not having internet except at my parents', i dont know comments are added until way later...
(16:59:30) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....blah sometimes boys are so frustrating
(16:59:43) Snow: i agree.
(16:59:44) Snow: hehe
(16:59:54) Snow: i havent seen either of you at vertex. whats up with that? avoiding me?
(17:00:08) ladyneyhatesyou: i havent had the money to go
(17:00:11) Snow: ah
(17:00:16) ladyneyhatesyou: im prolly gonna go around my bday
(17:00:21) Snow: whens that?
(17:00:28) ladyneyhatesyou: but keith seems to be very opposed to the idea
(17:00:29) ladyneyhatesyou: may 24
(17:00:38) Snow: probably because of e..
(17:00:39) Snow: *me
(17:00:56) ladyneyhatesyou: well he doesnt have to go if he doesnt want to...lol
(17:01:05) Snow: but you can just tell him this, spike NEVER goes. he wont. so he doesnt have to worry about that
(17:01:08) Snow: *shrugs*
(17:01:21) Snow: so he still hate me and think i'm a bitch? be honest
(17:01:53) ladyneyhatesyou: i know he hates spike *alot*...he really doesnt talk about you except in relation to spike....
(17:02:41) Snow: it would be cool if we could hang out sometime...you me and keith or just two of us. idk.
(17:03:41) ladyneyhatesyou: i dunno if keith would be ok with it....ill have to see how he acts if i bring your name up....but i wouldnt mind hanging out with you myself....i miss seeing you around school
(17:04:01) Snow: same here.
(17:04:40) ladyneyhatesyou: i feel so frustrated sometimes with all the drama keith and gen and michael and even spike stir up....i just wish everyone could be civil to each other
(17:05:44) ladyneyhatesyou: maybe im too idealistic
(17:06:00) Snow: im just like you.
(17:06:31) Snow: i mean, i did kinda start the comment war with my entry about you guys starting to date. but i was over it. i didnt mean to stir up trouble. then everyone took it too far..
(17:07:29) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....but i can understand how you would be hurt by he and i dating when he told you he had no intention of it...i know i certainly had no intention of it....(sometimes i even regret it) but i can understand how that would hurt your feelings
(17:07:39) Snow: so where is keith anyway?
(17:07:42) ladyneyhatesyou: at work
(17:07:52) Snow: ah
(17:07:59) Snow: which one he work at? henrietta?
(17:08:00) ladyneyhatesyou: he works like 40 hours a week...im so happy for him ^_^
(17:08:03) Snow: lol
(17:08:11) Snow: spike just got a job *gasp*
(17:08:13) ladyneyhatesyou: he actually works at a little deli place on park ave
(17:08:19) ladyneyhatesyou: wow...where?
(17:08:20) Snow: now i get to leech off him.
(17:08:21) Snow: lol
(17:08:23) Snow: oh
(17:08:29) Snow: a machine shop
(17:08:32) ladyneyhatesyou: thats cool
(17:08:45) Snow: hopefully he keeps it for a while..
(17:09:07) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....i worry about keith being able to hang on to a job too
(17:10:51) ladyneyhatesyou: omg...do you remember mark?
(17:11:29) Snow: yea...
(17:11:30) ladyneyhatesyou: hes engaged to alex
(17:11:35) ladyneyhatesyou: i found out today
(17:11:36) Snow: that was quick!
(17:11:39) ladyneyhatesyou: i know
(17:11:43) ladyneyhatesyou: i was like wtf?
(17:11:46) Snow: eh, to each their own.
(17:11:47) Snow: lol
(17:12:15) ladyneyhatesyou: im not normally one to judge people...but that just seems really fast paced to me
(17:12:40) Snow: i would probably jump in even faster if i really cared for the person.
(17:13:28) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah....i just cant imagine being engaged again after the last 3 times i was...i so want to go slow and wait till im like 25
(17:14:47) Snow: ah
(17:14:56) Snow: how old are you now?
(17:14:58) ladyneyhatesyou: 20
(17:15:05) ladyneyhatesyou: ill be 21 tho in like 3 weeks
(17:15:12) Snow: ok
(17:16:29) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah...i had some strange relationships....hehe
(17:16:41) Snow: as have i...
(17:16:46) ladyneyhatesyou: and of course my almost 2 years of singleness ^_^
(17:18:32) Snow: i probably would have been engaged at least once had fear nope poked its ugly head..
(17:20:01) ladyneyhatesyou: being engaged is sorta starnge. its like you know you are expected to do something, but all of those little fears, and all of those little dounts come up real quick....and it makes you really evaluate what *you* want....ii dont regret having been engaged...but i dont want to be engaged again anytime soon
(17:20:29) Snow: its just i was with him less than a month when it was brought up...
(17:20:46) ladyneyhatesyou: who?
(17:21:14) Snow: eh, doesnt matter.
(17:21:24) ladyneyhatesyou: keith?
(17:21:53) Snow: yea...
(17:22:27) ladyneyhatesyou: i thought so....he has said similar things to me...i sometimes dont really believe hes being honest
(17:23:42) Snow: what do you mean/
(17:24:54) ladyneyhatesyou: like he is always talking about getting married, and what *we* are going to be doing in the future....and how hes never been so sure about wanting to be with someone...blah blah blah....and he gets so pissed off at me if i dont say i love you every like 10 minutes....grr...(sorry that came out kinda vent-like) but ive been hurt so much before
(17:26:11) Snow: its okay
(17:27:57) ladyneyhatesyou: did he do the same thing to you?
(17:28:24) Snow: yea, but he and i have similar personalities, marrying young.
(17:28:41) Snow: so i quite enjoyed him having the same plan for the future..
(17:28:51) ladyneyhatesyou: ah i gotcha, maybe he really doesnt mean it then....
(17:29:07) Snow: yea
(17:29:25) Snow: spike thinks its 'ignorant' to want to marry young. so i know this isnt going to last...
(17:29:27) Snow: again...
(17:30:23) ladyneyhatesyou: you need to find someone who is gonna take care of you...i dont think spike or keith or any of those other dorks at school are capable of having a serious committed relationship
(17:30:33) ladyneyhatesyou: (i know thats what i need too)
(17:32:01) Snow: yet you're with keith...
(17:32:13) ladyneyhatesyou: yeah but he really loves me, at least i think he does
(17:32:14) Snow: so are you thinking its not going to last, or?
(17:32:32) ladyneyhatesyou: if he threatens my physical well being once more i will leave him
(17:32:44) Snow: wow, how does he threaten you/
(17:33:22) ladyneyhatesyou: eh, it doesn't really matter...i know hes got a lot of shit to sort thru
(17:34:51) Snow: yea, thast not good...
(17:35:05) Snow: was it over something trivial or something actually worth being mad?
(17:36:29) ladyneyhatesyou: he tells me that i am controlling because i asked him to give me at least a few hours notcie b4 he wants to disappear for a few days. he says that he needs to be able to come and go as he pleases (tho its my house, and he doesnt pay rent) and he gets mad when i ask him to pick up his dirty clothes....we always fight about real trivial stuff....its so annoying
(17:37:13) Snow: yea, same here...
(17:37:38) ladyneyhatesyou: blah boys are sooo lame!!!!!
(17:39:42) Snow: lol
(17:40:04) ladyneyhatesyou: ya know, a bunch of us girls should get together and have a girls night out ^_^
(17:41:31) Snow: i agree!
(17:41:38) Snow: you have my number and IM
(17:41:46) Snow: my email is mysticmermaid430@yahoo.com
(17:41:47) ladyneyhatesyou: i dont think i have your phone number
(17:41:50) Snow: i have to go to work now tho.
(17:41:55) Snow: 3136294
(17:41:58) ladyneyhatesyou: okies ^_^
(17:42:00) ladyneyhatesyou: ttyl hon
(17:42:05) Snow: well i thot you did since keith called me a few times from your phone
(17:42:12) Snow: but yea, i'll talk to you later..
(17:42:15) ladyneyhatesyou: ok
(17:42:18) ladyneyhatesyou: have a good night
(17:42:28) Snow: you too
(17:42:37) Snow: and i do hope things with keith work out for you...
(17:42:52) ladyneyhatesyou: thanks hon, i do love him you know...
(17:43:03) Snow: so do i