Susah ya jadi Full Time Mom ternyata!!

[morgan406]

Nyokap baru aja pulang kemaren pagi. Ternyata .. susah ya punya anak. Bukan susah urusinnya sih .. tapi kadang kita en suami beda pendapat dalam raise children .. nah loh .. itu yang pusing .. en kesian anaknya deh jadi percobaan.

Tapi gua tetep sayang banget ama David kok ..=).. cuma emang susah ya jadi Full Time Mom .. gampangan urusin anak orang

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[everymay]

The first 2 months was hell for me..
From 3-6 was easier (nyokap disini)
From 7 until right now (may 24 10.56CT): things are better and easier(karena udah gak ada nyokap lagi)

Kumar ama gue had totally diff. view of parenting style.
him: let him cry - an Ezzo style parent
me: no no no - an attachment-parenting style parent

At the end of the day, I'm staying at home and care for him for his first few years of life (at least 2). Mom rules!

[morgan406]

Iya bener sih Ra .. capekk bener ya. Moga2 bener deh kata elu .. cuma the first 2 months aja yang susah.

Udah 2 hari nih setelah nyokap gua pulang .. en at the end of the day gua selalu bilang "oh .. what a day!" .. capekk bener ya?! Bener2 kerja 24 hours non-stop ini .. mau ngebreak aja susah. Ini aja gua baru nge-break.

[everymay]

You can do it! The first 2 months, gue jarang banget masak (gue udah banyak ngefreeze waktu hamil). Jadi either Kumar masak atau take out.

Don't worry about the messy house.

Dulu Armand fussy banget. Jadi sering banget walaupun dia teriak-teriak (nangis bombay gitu), gue tetep aja jalan-jalan muter-muter komplek. Diajak jalan nangis, tapi tinggal di rumah juga nangis. Mendingan keluar kan. At least one of us feels better.

[ckristanto]

Betul, gampangan jagain anak orang.. hehehe. Gua dan suami juga kadang beda parenting style, asal jangan yg basic banget, I am fine with it. Anak2 juga jadi tau sih kalo Bunda dan Daddy might treat them differently. You'll find your style along the way.. as a compromise from both.

[morgan406]

Bener .. paling kesel kalo gua lagi capek en dia ajak argue ttg ini en itu .. aduhh beteee dah gua...