MMM. A very valid question. I don't know your particular past situations (you can tell me sometime if you want). It seems that many women I know (Including my ex) and several women I have dated have had this problem. Well I think the underlying need to be treated badly is there weather they want it to be or not. I think its more of need for a father figure or protector figure and unfortunately many men who give off this macho or whatever you want to refer to it persona are in general assholes. I hate to put down men but from what I have seen thats just the way it is, makes me sad to be one sometimes. I seem to attract women like this too. Mainly because of my size and maturity level I guess. What I think is that if you find someone who has a mix of the two (Can be protective without be a headstrong, overbearing, cocky, asshole, and can be somewhat feminine and caring)your will find a happy medium and can probably make it work for you and be happy. Lucky for you allot of the Goth crowd fits that bill. I don't know if you have been in
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fortunatly for me i actually found someone who is quite the happy medium and deserves more than what i can give....but i try anyway....and you are right though, most girls do look for a father figure, i unfortunatly look for people that i konw will destroy me.....kind of an emotional massochist i guess
not giving them what they deserve??-- thats a bold statement doll.
::smiles:: too bad it doesnt hold any weight... because what I deserve and what I want (aside from the obvious of you), isnt something you can really give or not give, it's just something that YOU ARE... and you are just that sweetie... I think maybe you're looking at that little idea the wrong way... and though I'm sorry to disagree, I think that you're perfect for me... and beautiful in my eyes, regardless of what anyone, including yourself, might think.
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we should talk sometime sweetie
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::smiles:: too bad it doesnt hold any weight... because what I deserve and what I want (aside from the obvious of you), isnt something you can really give or not give, it's just something that YOU ARE... and you are just that sweetie... I think maybe you're looking at that little idea the wrong way... and though I'm sorry to disagree, I think that you're perfect for me... and beautiful in my eyes, regardless of what anyone, including yourself, might think.
Just thought I'd share, girlfriend. ;)
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