Personal Issues

[morrigan_mccru]

There has been so much on my mind lately.  I feel often, more than not, that I have no one to blame but myself for the way things have progressed.  In my eyes, that is how I have seen things for a long time.  Yes, I have had both friends and loved ones tell me that I am not to blame.  But, that doesn’t change how I feel.

My family is dealing

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wow

[tempestofcm]

you've vented very well in this post...but know this...financial stress will always be there..it don't help if you make yourself sick trying to figure it out...believe me...no matter how much you rue on it, it doesn't go away..I tried..LOL...and with B starting his new job, that'll ease a little....the cramped apt..well, that also, as you know, won't change for a little bit...the intimacy problem, that could be cuz of the problems you had after having D....you might want to look into maybe finding a counselor that you could talk to, OR, and this is just a stretch, but you could try going and seeing your best friend and sister..one that doesnt' mind talking to you about your stress and feelings, cuz you'd do the same for her...and I don't charge...lol...seriously, though, you do need to talk to somebody uneffected by the situation before you blow a gasket...and my door is always open (even though it's a little hard to get through the security..lol)...but, I love you, and I'm here for you....ok?? *hugs*

Re: wow

[morrigan_mccru]

Funny, I guess with me knowing all the changes that you are going through with your own family, I didn't think about finding a way to get with you and vent about things. Strange, huh?

I will have to see about possibly going to see you sometime this week. Maybe you and I can just go driving around for a bit and BOTH get stress off our shoulders.

Also, B has a group interview Monday afternoon. Hopefully he will get the job...which will definitely help things along. :) Please keep your fingers crossed!

I love you too...and I think you are right...you & I need to get together and have another bitch-fest! ROFLMAO

HUGGLES n LOVES

OK

[kinky_witch]

Well I am not good with words so bare with me. Stress is stress... It will always be in your life. You know at times it can make the strongest person colapse. Money problems happen to everyone. Shit my hubby makes good money... But we still have stress when it comes down to money. It seems the more you make the more you have in bills. Anyways. I know how it feels to be in a small home with even more than you have. I know it is fustrating. Just look at it like this. Problem one and 2 can be fixed with ya'll working. And from the sounds of it..ya'll are on that right road. AND NOW...The sex thing. WHen you have a baby they take everything out of you. It took me almost a year and a half after Emalie... ANd I never really got back my old sex drive. Now a days it is the same as it was after Emalie. SO just hang in there it will come back. It might not be the way it was before but you will get some of it back. Well I hope the crying helps..if not give me a call.. SHALENE has my number.

Re: OK

[morrigan_mccru]

I meant to reply back to this last night but was running a couple of errands. I was hoping that you would see my response before your hospital stay