guilt trip

[mothraa]

if someone you barely know (and you are _not_ attracted to) and is just visiting your house, gets into your bed while you are asleep and gropes you in a seemingly sexual manner, and you wake up and kick them out, should you feel guilty if you don't want to be around that person? should you feel bad that because you got upset, you "made them feel

Comments

[solange]

Well, I generally try not to be friends with people who've sexually assaulted me, and I also tend to think that people who commit violent crimes should "feel bad" about it.

Also, to compare this to other acts of violence and theft: I've never heard of anyone successfully arguing in court that they shouldn't be punished for, say, mugging someone, just because they were drunk at the time and didn't know what they were doing. And if someone, say, punched me in the face, stole my wallet, spent the cash, and then later claimed it was just a joke, I'd have to say that's not a very good joke.

thanks!

[mothraa]

thank you so much! my feelings exactly! you are cool and right on!
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thank you thank you thank you again.
xxx
wendy