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[mouat]

Sometimes, I wonder if there is something about me that just makes me generally unappealing. Yeah, I realize there are some things about me physically that are less than perfect, but is that all there is to this equation? Is there something about not having any odd mental quirks that makes me just undesirable? I don't want to kill myself, hurt

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[oshihiro]

Heya,

Will, it's unclear by your post if you've asked this girl out or expressed your feelings to her. If you're upset that she hasn't signalled a desire to have a relationship with you, but you haven't signalled that to her yet either, then that's one issue. If you have and she's declined then that's another. Life is too short for miscommunications and misunderstandings so I would not make assumptions about how she feels if you haven't talked with her about this.

If she's declined then that doesn't mean anything has to change between you two. What's important is that you're happy being yourself with or without someone else in your life. You have to love yourself before someone else can love you, or you can love them.

Always know that things will work out as long as you be yourself.

[milothecat]

She's blind...she thinks she knows how she feels, but from what i seen, she doesnt.

Alot of girls seem to like the guy to like what they look like outside, not who they are inside. That is what separates you from the others.

But you do need to sit her down and just spill it. Dont ask for a response, just get it on the table. Let time settle in, and you'll get a very honest answer. Whether its good or bad, at least you have known that she knows everything you think and feel about her. Just reading the livejournal wouldnt do justice. You have a good way with words, so use them.

Damn, now i lost my train of thought...we're gonna hang out and go adventuring tomorrow, k?

[milothecat]

They're both right.

Put it on the table, and if it works out it works out. If not, not meant to be and you gotta learn to live with it. Been there more than once myself, and I can speak from experience and say that no amount of anything you can do can change how she feels - she either likes you or doesn't. Don't push it, if it's meant to be it will be. If not, this sounds cold but you just need to move on.