Just read this

[moxxyie]

Written by and cross-posted from the indomitable primless.

I whole-heartedly agree with every letter her message contains and a thousand wine glasses wouldn't be enough to toast to this.

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Would you rather that, when you meet your partner, he/she is complete and happy without you so you can be complete together, or would you

Comments

[kididove]

Plain and simple! I like your work!

[moxxyie]

The above passage was written by primless, not me.

[primless]

thanks again, babycakes. <3

[moxxyie]

No, thank you for some blazing truth!
It's the sort of message I would print and frame on my wall. :)

[exilian]

I used to feel this way, too.

[moxxyie]

What do you feel now? And how did you come to this particular change of perspective?

[exilian]

I have a recent post explaining how I feel now.

As to what changed my perspective (the short answer):

A good book, a bad end to a relationship and 6 years of hardship.

[moxxyie]

From what I've read in your entry and from the context the above passage represents, I'd say you both have the right idea(s).

[kesobile]

I think that is right bout that. Nice info and thanks. Need to get in google feed.

[moxxyie]

primless wrote the above. She's the one to thank.

[godbecomeanimal]

I try to be aloof, but I confess that I have been guilty of needing.

[primless]

It doesn't have to be an either/or. :)

[godbecomeanimal]

Aloof and needing? I'm a catch!

haha, you're funny.

[primless]

Aloof isn't the opposite of needing!