This is a letter I got from Jake today....a beautiful letter that acts as closure for us both.

5th February

Dear Tom,

I think that this is going to be one of the hardest things that I’ve had to do in a while, but I think it needs to be done. I’ve got so many things that I want to say to you, and I think a lot of it just needs to be said, ( Read more... )

Its been about a month since I have updated so I still suck as far as writing in this thing is concerned.  I was meaning to update earlier in the week but I have been ridiculously ill and so haven't been able to. I'm still pretty bad now but definitely on the mend.  Everytime I write in here I have been ill recently.  That's a pretty depressing ( Read more... )

Its been a while since I updated, but I think I need to do one about whats going on with me at the moment.  Jake and I are on a break.  It was my choice because I am going through a bit of crisis of faith about our relationship.  Things had started changing between Jake and I for a while now.  We have been arguing more often than not, and small ( Read more... )

GRRRR!! I have just written a really long post and now its gone.  And Jake's just got home so will rewrite it another time.

OH MY GOD!! Why do people insist on calling me Tommy?!?!?!  My name is not Tommy, it is Tom....Thomas if I've been bad.  But it is not, nor will it ever be Tommy!  It won't be Tommie or Tommi either.  Its a personal preference of mine.  My mother christened me Thomas and shortened my name to Tom to avoid me being called Tommy.  Tommy is the name of ( Read more... )

I just remembered the best thing that happened to me today.  Probably the best back handed compliment I have ever received....Me, Jina and James were laughing, almost hysterically, so much so we had comments from other call centres saying that we appeared to be having a really good time at work because we kept on coming through to them laughing... ( Read more... )

Right, as promised some info about the fun that is my family life at Christmas.  I am half tempted to tell my family where to go when it comes to this particular holiday and I have to admit it is pretty much my dad’s fault.  Last year he was a total cock about where we spent Christmas.  He wanted my sister, my brother and me to all go to him for ( Read more... )

Right I'm sorry that I haven't updated in so long. I have been really slack, I know that I said I would try to update at least once a week, more often if I possibly could - Ooops! I will try to do better, the reason is that not much has been happening recently, I 'm trying to save money for Christmas, with so much to pay for with presents, ( Read more... )

Right it’s been a while so this could take some time to update…here goes.  Work wise I have been in training again for 3 weeks and been online as well.  The training was ridiculously easy and pretty boring all told if it wasn’t for the trainer, Steve, who is the funniest trainer at BT I think.  He also spends half the sessions on the phone to his ( Read more... )

Right time for a catch up cos I haven’t done one for a while. Only excuse is I have no excuse, I have been way, way too slack.  Oh and I was so ill I was in hospital on Saturday.  News of note….hmmm well Jake has now met my parents and my twin brother and sister.  At the moment I am not a hundred per cent sure what people think of each other. I ( Read more... )