Quit Bitching. it's as simple as that, man. believe me. quit bitching so damn much, all you're doing by that is dwelling on whatever it is that sucks. i used to go to all my friends and explain in great detail why my life sucks. did it help? hell no. i'm much happier bitching less, and not dwelling on shit. if you don't dwell on it, you end up forgetting about it. im not saying keep it all pent up, that's bad too, but you gotta find that sweet spot right in the middle of the two.
don't think that's what he's doing. lj is a place that he writes crap so he doesn't go complain to everyone. like a journal. hence live journal. don't like, don't read.
I do bitch a lot. I think it's mostly because I'm seeking advice in a subtle way. I have a hard time asking for help. See, to me asking for help kind of makes me feel weak, like i can't handle myself. Aren't I supposed to master my 'domain'?
I don't know. It's just like heavy stuff happens to me and I don't really know what to do or don't really know if anyone else goes through the same thing. So, I bitch; I complain; I moan; I bellyache. I guess through that process I figure someone will be like "look, something similar like that happened to me and here's what i did..."
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I don't know. It's just like heavy stuff happens to me and I don't really know what to do or don't really know if anyone else goes through the same thing. So, I bitch; I complain; I moan; I bellyache. I guess through that process I figure someone will be like "look, something similar like that happened to me and here's what i did..."
I don't know. I really AM a professional victim.
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