Dog with two bones.

Back in the day, I had a choice to make. A or B.

"A" was someone that I had known since high school. We were friends, as is "Oh, Hi!", as our circle of friends and acquaintances intersected through some of the same school classes, clubs, and activities.

"A" grew up kinda poor, but was focused on going to college. Had ( Read more... )

Commitment.

Still in a sexless marriage. Zero sex for the year 2014. I accept it. I continue to go to bed as a place to read, watch TV, or sleep. I ignore any hints from her that she might want sex. It's too late, been going on too long, for that hurt of being in the sexless marriage to forgive/resume.

(Thankfully I still have the internet for ( Read more... )

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Twelve times for all of 2013.

(thank goodness for internet porn, good enough eyesight, and a good arm to stroke with!)

Wifeboinc last night. Lots of teasing foreplay. Wooden clothespins, egg vibrator, and lube. Happy ending on both sides.

wifeboinc - I initiated - was friendly

Was nice, light mood sex. Used the egg vibrator on her and lube right from the start. Lots of zings for her, before I let myself finish.

I was asleep. Had gone to sleep around 10pm.

Half woke up just after midnight with a stiffy, noticed someone's hand was lightly stroking Mr. Happy, and it wasn't me.

Was still half asleep, so went with the flow, and ended up having sex.

Kind of trippy to have been someone's booty call when I was already asleep. Nothing planned by me, I was ( Read more... )

I have gone through the stages of grief on having a sexless marriage to arrive at Acceptance.

I now 'accept' to just share a bed, and do not ever have expectations of having sex with my wife. Bed is where TV is watched, or reading a book, or sleeping. Nothing more.

I no longer initiate, ask, or ever bring up the topic of us having sex.

I am ( Read more... )

Wholesome vannila wifeboinc. Mr. Happy rose to the occasion, and the egg vibe helped her have some nice O's.

Suprising that both the mood was there, and that there was a kids-are-asleep window for it, too.

Existing in what I consider to be a sexless marriage.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexless_marriage

Wifeboinc at 3am. Couldn't get it up! (getting old sucks) : (

Thankfully was able to use toys and vibrators to help her get off, so she was happy sweaty and satisfied.