(GT) Letting Go vs. Giving Up

[mseuphrates]

First of all, thank you Livejournal. I've honestly gotten past caring if anyone reads or responds, because I need the outlet either way and I've got no other place or way to do so. And while an acknowledgement someone is out there who cares would be lovely, it's moot. I have stuff I need to process, and absolutely no one on the planet who I can

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[magdalensghost]

Oh Sweetie, I wish I had an answer, but considering that I could have written both of these (about my relationship with 'hubby' obviously), I doubt I would be much help anyway. I'm sitting here married in name only after all and who knows were he is. But I am here, and I am listening, and you can always call me if you need to vent. Which one is she, by the way? The red I'm assuming. You really need to get the itchy taken care of for your own comfort and safety, and I know you know that. Did none of the OTC stuff work?!

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[mseuphrates]

MUAH! Old gf from Bowling Green, actually, doubt you ever met her. Now that the BSN is done (I graduated this weekend!!) I intend to get on making a whole bunch of appointments. Once we get past THIS trip (currently enroute to Rockbridge County for his court date tomorrow - guess who got pulled over and got hit for more than just speeding while he was at it on his way to see the gf all the way to her place instead of their usual half way meeting spot? This has already cost us/me $800 for a lawyer, and who knows what the fines will be, I have been sitting on the tax return to make sure we can cover it). Once we know the actual damage, I can take care of other things.
And I still love him, and we are generally okay, but there are issues that need dealt with. Eventually. *hugs*

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[magdalensghost]

Yeah, no. I don't know any of the old GFs beyond Kent. Yikes what a bill! *Big Kisses* right back at ya! I'm glad that things are basically okay, but I hate to see you like this when things seemed so good in the past. You deserve not to have to deal with this kind of crap after all that you have already been through, and I may have to smack him the next time I see him. He shouldn't be treating you like this! :(