Well, back to work and the fun begins. Hand is still really painful but in a healing way, not a way that makes me afraid it will never end. Surgery is weird
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thanks so much for the good vibes, sweetie! And I am very sad to hear about your current troubles. Everytime I hear about someone else's emotional hurts I get a rock in the pit of my stomach. If ya ever wanna talk, my ears are good.
it was good to see your icon pop up on my friends page.
glad to hear you're healing. surgery, home ill for a long period of time can cuase tension between partners, been there. just remember as many people have told me. it's great to care for someone else but only after you've cared for yourself. take care of you
Good to see you back on the pseudo-world we call LJ.
I've found that if I just ignore it she gets over it much more quickly. PMS is terrible cause of the whole deal that our cycles almost coincide so first I'm all emotional and sensitive for a week, then she's all crab-assed and rude for a week. This is the one reason I've ever even wished I could be attracted to men.
This is the biggest reason I could never be a lesbian--as much as I love women and their fluidity, I'm emotional enough for 3 people. I would end up breaking up with someone every single time we had coinciding PMS. :)
As for how you're feeling--I'd say it's normal. Of course, I'd say that b/c it's almost exactly how I am. Sometimes I get frustrated and irritated even with the people I love the most. I need a lot of attention too, but I hate feeling stifled. I want to be respected, but I don't want to have to take care of other people's basic needs unless absolutely necessary. That's the one thing that dating men makes frustrating--guys sometimes cannot take
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~healing vibes~
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thanks again and keep smilin'.
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glad to hear you're healing. surgery, home ill for a long period of time can cuase tension between partners, been there. just remember as many people have told me. it's great to care for someone else but only after you've cared for yourself. take care of you
love and prayers, big john
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I've found that if I just ignore it she gets over it much more quickly. PMS is terrible cause of the whole deal that our cycles almost coincide so first I'm all emotional and sensitive for a week, then she's all crab-assed and rude for a week. This is the one reason I've ever even wished I could be attracted to men.
This is the biggest reason I could never be a lesbian--as much as I love women and their fluidity, I'm emotional enough for 3 people. I would end up breaking up with someone every single time we had coinciding PMS. :)
As for how you're feeling--I'd say it's normal. Of course, I'd say that b/c it's almost exactly how I am. Sometimes I get frustrated and irritated even with the people I love the most. I need a lot of attention too, but I hate feeling stifled. I want to be respected, but I don't want to have to take care of other people's basic needs unless absolutely necessary. That's the one thing that dating men makes frustrating--guys sometimes cannot take ( ... )
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