I had an epiphany recently. Not long ago, I found someone I'd "lost". I wanted to meet him and catch up. He cancelled, and he's been reluctant to reschedule I think. It bothered me...a lot. I was hurt
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I think having someone say they would like to meet up in the first place is amazing, as everyone I know is an acquaintance and doesn't even want to PRETEND to spend time with me.
I tend to use CBT type stuff to stall my depressive feelings, too. I've found that I need to connect to a "value" in order to remove cognitive distortions, you know what I mean? Like for example if I had been in your situation, I would be like, "well, this person doesn't want to spend time with me, BUT I can enjoy spending time alone." I can't just be like "IT doesn't matter if one person doesn't want to spend time with me" because no one wants to spend time with me.
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I think having someone say they would like to meet up in the first place is amazing, as everyone I know is an acquaintance and doesn't even want to PRETEND to spend time with me.
I tend to use CBT type stuff to stall my depressive feelings, too. I've found that I need to connect to a "value" in order to remove cognitive distortions, you know what I mean? Like for example if I had been in your situation, I would be like, "well, this person doesn't want to spend time with me, BUT I can enjoy spending time alone." I can't just be like "IT doesn't matter if one person doesn't want to spend time with me" because no one wants to spend time with me.
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