jenn, had this person been a bridesmaid ever before? sometimes people need a list of things they are responsible for etc because they just plain dont know.
but i agree, not even calling you is a little off the mark of a bridesmaid.
she's been a bridesmaid 8times before!! i mean out of all 5 of us, she's the only one who's been through the whole wedding planning process so we were in fact actually relying on her somewhat to pull the strings but nothing... and of course i wouldn't expect anything from her if she didn't say she would help out from the beginning. anyways, at least i know now what kind of friend she is and how much she really appreciates our relationship.
I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, its your wedding, and you should have the people in and part of it that you want. I know that we can feel the pangs of obligation, but really its what makes you happy that matters the most.
And both places look nice, I can't wait to see what you eventually move into ;)
the thing is i actually did want her to be apart of it tho.. we have so much history together and i really wanted her to share it with me but if that's how she's going to come out then what can i do... ya know.
When I got engaged, one of the first thought was trying to discern who'd be my grooms men. So I sorta know what you're going through... PITA. Best of luck!
Hey those condos/lofts are pretty snazzy! Myself, I'm looking for a 2 bedroom loft right on the Harbourfront - I was shopping for suites at the Aqua, but I need something more of what I want and affordable; I know, those 2 shouldn't be in the same sentence.
thanks... sometimes i think some of my friends might feel offended if i dont ask them and then i'm stuck. now i dont want any of my girlfriends to feel as if i'm asking them to fill in just because someone got kicked out - as if they'er second best...
i like these lofts! there are a few going up in the east end, ajax area by the lake which are really cheap but so out of my area! *Sigh* i agree.. what i want and affordable shouldn't be in the same sentence. haha.
hey girl...don't feel so bad...ur wedding is very important and you want it to consist of people who are a big part of ur life..that's what makes it special..
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"either you are part of the solution or you are part of the problem."
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i just hope she sees it like that as well.
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but i agree, not even calling you is a little off the mark of a bridesmaid.
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i mean out of all 5 of us, she's the only one who's been through the whole wedding planning process so we were in fact actually relying on her somewhat to pull the strings but nothing...
and of course i wouldn't expect anything from her if she didn't say she would help out from the beginning. anyways, at least i know now what kind of friend she is and how much she really appreciates our relationship.
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And both places look nice, I can't wait to see what you eventually move into ;)
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thanks.i can't wait either!
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Best of luck!
Hey those condos/lofts are pretty snazzy!
Myself, I'm looking for a 2 bedroom loft right on the Harbourfront - I was shopping for suites at the Aqua, but I need something more of what I want and affordable; I know, those 2 shouldn't be in the same sentence.
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i like these lofts! there are a few going up in the east end, ajax area by the lake which are really cheap but so out of my area! *Sigh* i agree.. what i want and affordable shouldn't be in the same sentence. haha.
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