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[munstar]

how is it that one person can make you feel like total, complete shit

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[shutupxslut]

I know exactly how you feel. Everything you are experiencing WILL make you a stronger, more confident person in the future. I did a lot, a lot of soul searching when I got sober, I dealt with a lot of feelings and emotions that were hard as Fuck to deal with. I was decreased and sometimes didnt even know if the pain was all worth it. But I took one day at a time, I dealt with what I could, I read self help books, I got rid of negative things in my life and just did me. The pain eventually turns into lessons that you are supposed to learn in life. I still struggle, but I just have faith in myself and somedays are harder than others but you just have to try to stay positive. We compare ourselves to others and it really is so unhealthy. What I have learned is that no matter a persons looks, wealth, status, etc. We all have problems. You can run from them or face them head on and move forward, which is harder, but better in the long run. Usually, people aren't thinking about you the way you think about them or think they're thinking

[shutupxslut]

Depressed, not decreased*

[munstar]

thanks girl

[shutupxslut]

The book "if life is a game, these are the rules" really helped me through the depression I went through, I would recommend it. It's short, but its really positive and helpful

[feeble_slumber]

Cause you're you and you're awesome and should show everybody you can do anything you set your mind to. Nothing is impossible. Live your best life, you don't need anyone to show you how it's done. You're perfect as you are.

(Or at least that what happened to my mind when it woke up from the shittest of all break-up shits) Life's good...but it may take a while to see it. Give it time, it's how it goes. You live you learn. x

[munstar]

thank you. i like how you said, "lifes good, but it may take a while to see it" its true, and i know. but i wish i twould hurry up :/ i like feeling happy more than anything, but i feel like i just let everything/everyone get to the best of me, and i don tknow how to fix it!

i wish desensitization was as easy as it sounds.
(ok, i guess its not really an easy word to say either)

[becauseicare]

[munstar]

this is gunna sound stupid, but sometimes when i tell myself i am important when i feel kind of neglected, it makes me feel worse, because if i feel im important, why do people keep trying to walk over me?

i know that my problem is that i let my emotions take over me more than anything, and i wish i had better control over them, but i cant. i feel consumed sometimes, but i guess thats what anyone suffering from depression would say.