Seriously. Nevermind. Fuck off and die. Really. I don't care. Not anymore. So maybe I'm spoiled. So maybe I'm impatient. I don't care, not anymore
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yeah wallowing in self pity really will help to reach your goal. Sure we dont know for sure that you will meet someone. But I'm not saying that to make you feel better, just because its a big chance you WILL meet someone.
But hey, if you are ready to give hope up so soon, be my guest. Wallowing in self pity isnt an attractive trait but if thats the course you want to follow, I wont stop you.
Oh and the reason for saying stuff like "you will get into a relationship" I say it to encourage you to go through the hard times. Not because I feel sorry for you. Just to support you. Because that is what friends do. But if you cant handle that or dont want that, fine by me.
Funny thing is, most of you are either IN a serious relationship, or know how to get one.
Honestly? I have no clue how to get into a serious relationship. Yes, I may be in one, but I still consider that pure luck. I'm pretty sure that it's all pure luck, for everyone. There is no "knowing how" in relationships, because it's different everytime. It's not like, "oh I'll go to that and that place and I'll have a relationship". Staying in a relationship is something else of course, that does require a certain know-how and hard work, but the beginning is just luck.
That said, I know it sucks to be single but like cynni said, wallowing in self pity isn't going to help.
I'm sorry if what I said made you feel bad about yourself. That's the last thing I want. What I say I always want to present as an opinion, not the absolute truth, because I sure as heck don't have all the wisdom in the world
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See that gate there? It's the entrance to the adult world. Stop the self-pity, adjust, compromise, work hard, fall down, get up, cry, laugh, give, take. In the end you'll find the way to that gate and find out the adult world isn't as bad as you think it is. Self-pity pushes people away.
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But hey, if you are ready to give hope up so soon, be my guest. Wallowing in self pity isnt an attractive trait but if thats the course you want to follow, I wont stop you.
Oh and the reason for saying stuff like "you will get into a relationship" I say it to encourage you to go through the hard times. Not because I feel sorry for you. Just to support you. Because that is what friends do. But if you cant handle that or dont want that, fine by me.
You want honesty? There you have it.
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Honestly? I have no clue how to get into a serious relationship. Yes, I may be in one, but I still consider that pure luck. I'm pretty sure that it's all pure luck, for everyone. There is no "knowing how" in relationships, because it's different everytime. It's not like, "oh I'll go to that and that place and I'll have a relationship". Staying in a relationship is something else of course, that does require a certain know-how and hard work, but the beginning is just luck.
That said, I know it sucks to be single but like cynni said, wallowing in self pity isn't going to help.
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