During the "getting to know you" phase, I would avoid subjects like suicide attempts, fucked-up families and other downers, (unless he starts discussing such things.)
After all, you don't want to scare the poor guy off.
But I wish you the best, and hopefully the best with your new relationship.
"We all need somebody to love." (Jefferson Airplane)
Thank you, and while you're right - I know he's got certain issues, too. And given that he knows about SIA - he 'overheard' me telling someone else about it, in an attempt to get them to visit the site.... But, yes, I'm playing it as close to the chest as all this allows.
I called my lawyer, talked to an aide, was told that the judge was given the brief about a month ago, and that he takes 2 - 3 months to make a decision. *sighs* So I've got at least a month or two to go. And that's just the financial decision, n'mind my health.... :P *sighs* Though the lawyer says that if he makes the financial decision in my favor, I'm practically guaranteed a positive health decision (after all, mucho things wrong with me)... And given that my mother's no longer helping me financially, he *should* side with me. But that's no real guarantee, either. But being homeless (which is what's going to happen, if I can't figure something out) is *not* what I have in mind for a positive outcome/experience. Damnit. Oh, well. I've decided (again) to try not to worry about it, just do what I can and leave the rest to the gods
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After all, you don't want to scare the poor guy off.
But I wish you the best, and hopefully the best with your new relationship.
"We all need somebody to love." (Jefferson Airplane)
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Thanks for the advice. :) AND the well-wishes.
Adore you. :)
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and i am a sucker for the black irish looks, too. except k has brown eyes. but the kind that melt you.
and- i hate to ask this, but did you ever get approved for ssi/ssdi? i guess i missed out on that and have been wondering.
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