Drama sucks. Take my advice and sleep through it. 8 hours sleep and the world seems a less dramatic place and its easier to nod and smile at things before telling poeple you're not in the mood to talk.
This is, indeed, a shitty position to be in. Sounds like a lot of things in your life are unsettled -some for the better, yes, such as the change from Karl to Caleb- but even positive changes, when big enough, are unsettling.
The city DOES look ominous, at the moment. I write this from my desk overlooking the rooftops of Wellington, and it's grey and mysterious. I don't know how it is for you, but when I go through that sort of thing, there's always one moment of total, unexpedted clarity, from which things improve.
You do have a talent for helping people feel better- I'm not sure you realise how much some of the things you said affected me, when I was so low last month. But this must get trying, and I think that it's totally ok to tell people that you are not in a position to help them and that you need to look after yourself- if they're truly your friends, and I think they are, they will understand.
Take care of yourself. I am sure that I am not the only one who is here for you, should you need it.
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The city DOES look ominous, at the moment. I write this from my desk overlooking the rooftops of Wellington, and it's grey and mysterious. I don't know how it is for you, but when I go through that sort of thing, there's always one moment of total, unexpedted clarity, from which things improve.
You do have a talent for helping people feel better- I'm not sure you realise how much some of the things you said affected me, when I was so low last month. But this must get trying, and I think that it's totally ok to tell people that you are not in a position to help them and that you need to look after yourself- if they're truly your friends, and I think they are, they will understand.
Take care of yourself. I am sure that I am not the only one who is here for you, should you need it.
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