i think it is probably for the best that you are doing this... i cannot believe i am saying this. I really do love you guys both and i just want all this animosity towards one another stop because it is not constructive for you to be stressed like this. Especially if the things i heard from Jason regarding you are true. My comment is still gonna remain on jason's lj because if it wasnt daniel, i still would like him to see it because maybe he will realize that how deeply affected Jason's friends are because of all this. I did check the user info before i decided to leave a post on there myself and did think it was him. I do realize it is taking him a long time to get over the break and the fact you are with someone new. But to put your mind at ease a little, he is going out alot more and starting to pursue other women. I do hope my comments on his lj did not in any way offend you but i felt like someone needed to be said to hopefully let all this stuff just cut off. ya know!? I've been trying to keep a netural front but sometimes, i
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Thanks Jenee, I do appreciate your support and understanding. I also understand that you were just trying to stick up for Jason and you just want all this to end too. I'm sorry if you have been caught up in the middle of all this. I know Jason means well, but he is obsessed and not thinking straight at all sometimes. I didn't even think to check the user info on that "quitchercrying" person. I'm about to look. And I'm thinking that if this person put user info to implicate who they might be, that's strange and stupid. Why would Daniel do that? Also, if you haven't read already, I added some comments to the thread we've been speaking of. More of my thoughts are there.
I mean the reason i assumed it was Daniel is because it said the user was from Mateca, CA and that is where he is from formally? right? i do not want Jason to turn into a certain friend who has been hung up on the guy whom dumped her over a year ago. it is really unhealthy. I just think that if i am there for both of you, it will be more constructive. I mean i can understand why Daniel would want to say something because hell, he is there to protect you( not knocking Jason in any way saying that he doesnt do the same) and maybe he might see that there is some stress from Jason there but frankly, if he stays more quiet, it probably be for the best. just trust me.
By the time I looked for the user info, the account had been deleted, so there was nothing there. Yes, Daniel is from Manteca, but only as of recent. He grew up out of state pre-junior high, and grew up somewhere else after junior high. Manteca is where he has lived most recently the most, but when he got separated from his wife last year, he moved to a few other cities and ended up here in Sac. So technically he would be from Sac if he started an lj. But he could pick any of the cities he feels like picking. And if Daniel wanted to create an account to be spitefull and annonymous, why would he put a real city that he's from? Someone who heard he was from Manteca would be able to do that. But I can't even figure out who would do that. I wish whoever did it would just come out and admit it. I still don't believe it was Daniel.
Hey Anita- i'm sorry for all the things happenin lately to you hun *hugs* i miss ya girl!! =P Well i hope things go good for you Anita and remember we still have a shopping date =P. lol
Aw hell yeah, we still have a shopping date! Thanks for the nice words, Mat-tew, I do miss you dude! Things here are just a little beyond weird, but it will work out eventually. I hope. We need to get together!
Things are going great Anita! :) Just having a nice time settling into my house... STILL... its like a neverending thing for me. We should get together for dinner sometime! :) Take care!
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