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[musuko]

i was actually, genuinely angry at someone other than myself last night. it's been a long time since i've felt that. possibly years. i raised my voice at her, and now i regret it very deeply. i would like to say it was her fault, but it was just as much my own for escalating. now i want to resolve the issue, but i don't know how to do it. if

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[cheeser1]

i'm sorry you are upset, and i'm sorry you had a disagreement
the best advice i could offer you is to trust that things will work out ok, because in the end, they always do.

[musuko]

i don't know if you'll ever understand how much you just lifted my spirits, kel. i hope you never forget what you just told me, because i never will. my thanks are not enough.

[cheeser1]

aw ben, that's what friends are for!

[rigantona]

Sometimes, especially when you feel strongly about something, you can't help but lose your temper. Maybe you shouldn't have done so, but we've all done things we shouldn't have.
We can't always agree with others and you shouldn't apologise for your point of view, that would be a fake resolution.

What you can apologise for is the way you dealt with it, because it's something you genuinely regret. I think it would be a bad idea to discuss it again though. Just tell this person that your views differ and it's best, for both of you, if you leave it at that.

[pdittle]

differing systems of logic can be very frustrating, especially when the other party seems (and very well may be) illogical. i have never found someone who has the same logic as me, because no one has had the same experiences to shape it. i can't offer advice (beyond advising you not to run away and never speak to anyone again), but let me extend my sincerest sympathy, 'cause i've been there man.

[angelarayson]

i am sorry that you had a dispute. i wish there were something more i could do. i can offer listening ears and shoulders to cry on if that is what you want. i pray things will be resolved between you and this girl. remember, everything is all right in the end. if it's not all right, it's not the end. God bless.

[musuko]

it's actually almost completely resolved already. but thank you.