What You Want

[mutantbearman]

What is it about attraction? What makes us fall ass-over-teakettle for James and not-so-much for John? Why is it some guys only get hard for bears or for Arabic men or for men with tattoos? What makes me think one guy with certain attributes is fookin’ hawt while another guy with the same attributes is just okay?

Cupid is a fickle fellow, indeed,

Comments

[kain5627]

You are always so articulate. I always love reading your posts

[mutantbearman]

You are so sweet, my friend. You know, I'm beginning to think that attractions have a mind of their own. You can't tell them what to do. In the end, trying to fight attraction (or the lack thereof) is almost always futile. And each person has different bully attractions which must be obeyed.

For me personally, when it comes to sex, pure and simple, I like to mix it up. I have an extremely high curiosity level and so I'm always interested in new experiences. Just the way I'm built. When it comes to deeper attractions, like the L word (no not LESBIAN... LOVE!) I tend to also find certain traits always present (kindness is one of them). Also, sometimes it's the flaws in a man, the imperfections, that I find attractive (not sure I get that one, but it's true).

Don't know what to say here. Maybe you should follow your heart, wherever it might lead...?