To have a future would be an awfully big adventure.

[my_az_is_in_cz]

I'm just so full of thoughts this morning. Yesterday I was such a roller-coaster of emotions and discovered some information about my ex, Max, and other things and they're all just spinning around in my head and I figure this is the safest place to say all these things. You guys, who have been a part of my life forever, might read and tell me that

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[jules411]

I'm always here to listen. no joke. message me, and I'll respond asap because I have an unhealthy obsession with checking my messages every 5 minutes

[our_chance]

I want to second what Jules said

[islandserenade]

Man. I remember you -- us -- all those years ago, just bumming around the forums and having nightly Puff chats. Now it's all boyfriends and college and the future. How the hell did that happen? Anyway, I just wanted to say, though it's been ages since we had a proper conversation, that I'm really happy for you, and I'm proud of what you've accomplished. So there, from your old Puff prefect. ;)

I also second what Jules and Nikki have said: you and Aaron are happy, and that's all that really matters. You're in a stable relationship, you have a guy that loves you, and Max is just being an annoying 2-year-old on the playground. That said, I also understand the feeling of wanting everything to smoothen out before heading to college. That would be the ideal situation, for sure. But if that doesn't happen, take comfort in the fact that you tried to make things better between the two of you. At least you tried, and he didn't, and that makes you the better person for it.

Good luck, dear. And all the best to you and Aaron.

[potter_wars]

Sounds to me that you definitely have the high ground and that Max isn't coming anywhere near it any time soon. He's being an immature little boy about all of this, whereas you have been handling things maturely and reasonably the whole time. Even when you thought you were pregnant, you handled it just the way you should, and I respect you a great deal for that. I also think Aaron sounds amazing, and that you two have something really special. Hold on to him and try your best to ignore what Max is doing or saying. It's him that's making this complicated and messy, so it's up to him to sort it out. I think anyone can see that what he's saying is purely out of spite and to save face. And maybe after a few years, he'll come to terms with it and make his peace.

In the meantime, as hard as it is, you've got to just make it his problem. You're happy and you're going places. *hugs* Right now, that's what matters.