Comments | my_daddy: my new years resolution

my_daddy

my new years resolution

Nov 03, 2005 10:57

i realized that i need to build my self confidence; i dont want to burdon my relationships (friends, family, etc.) with any amount of jealousy i may get due to my lack of it. the jealousies i experience are not big and hindersome, but there should be no room for jealousy if i want to make those around me feel their most comfortable and free. ( Read more... )

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squirtlle November 3 2005, 17:34:20 UTC

i think it is only natural to feel jealous sometimes. i'm not a real big fan of holding back emotions. but if you feel like it is going to have negative effects to bring it to the open, maybe just try writing it down and then throwing it out. most of the time it stems from illogical neurosis anyway , dont't you think? but what do i know.. don't take my word for it

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mentryarson November 4 2005, 00:11:58 UTC

too much posessiveness is dangerous. not enough can lead to indifference. so, like all things we enjoy in life, there should be moderation. there are also different levels of jealousy and at times it is destructive, mostly to oneself. a little envy is safe, if moderate. speak about what your uncertainties are until you are satisfied that what you have said was understood. say it again if you feel misunderstood.

clarity.
communication.
understanding.

"A function of language is to disclose.
An effect is to reveal."
--Robert Fripp

editthetearsout November 5 2005, 05:19:02 UTC

Hey.

It's probably all spawning from the fact I was a little bitch when we were young.

Not that this makes any sense....but maaaannn....I feel so bad for you when I watch our family videos. You put up with so much from me.

AND I LOVE YOU FOR IT!

P.S. I am jealous of your impecible taste in music, as well as you creativity and awesomness.