First, you should find out whether he feels the same for you. If he does, he needs to break up with the girl. Under any circumstances do not let him anywhere near you if he is still with her. That would be a clear warning about his character.
If he breaks up with the girl because he feels he has a stronger bond with you, nothing wrong with that...That's how it is. We search for people who compliment us the most. If they've only been dating for such a short time, minimal damage done.
If he doesn't feel the same for you, just cut him out completely and never look back, because that is just trouble you don't need.
You'll make the right decision! Just remember how amazing you are, and that the gentleman needs to be clear on how he feels about you. If he is unsure, he doesn't deserve you. <3
sigh, your right brother. i just don't even know how to go about having that conversation with him. i don't want to seem like an uber dork, and be completely rejected and possibly screw up an amazing friendship.
ever since my failed three year relationship, i don't exactly know how to get back on the dating horse. which is weird. but after having been in a relationship for so long, where my significant other knew everything about me ... its so hard trying to get through the awkward stage of learning each other.
urghhh! who does dating have to be so hard?! thank you for your awesome advice my wonderful brother. now i just have to work up the nerve to actually try and talk to him about it. cross your fingers and wish me luck.
if a guy will dump his gf for you what's gonna stop him from dumping you for a new girl later down the road?
if I have feelings for a guy they go dormant once I find out he has a gf even if I don't know her and we're not friends girls are supposed to stick together. idk I guess I'm an idiot and the only girl who thinks I should have respect for my fellow woman; not like they ever show me the same sort of respect.
my feelings can come back once he's single (assuming it had nothing to do with my influence)
didn't mean for that dear :( I know you're not a skank
I know it sucks to like someone who is already taken I'm just saying in those cases we tend to only think about our feelings and the guy, but we need to also consider the other girl's feelings. You said so yourself you know what it feels like to be that girl. You know it hurts. Why would you want to inflict that kind of pain onto another human being?
also, personally I believe in karma I've seen it all too often in my life I've been bit myself quite a few times no fun
I'm not saying "the right thing" to do is to not allow anything to happen between you two. Just don't MAKE something happen you know? It should not be a direct result of something you said or did to sway that guy's mind. If he likes you back he can decide on his own to end things with his current girl in favor of you.
Besides, think about it. If him leaving his gf for you is something that you had to convince him or otherwise sway him to do, do you really wanna be with someone like that?
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If he breaks up with the girl because he feels he has a stronger bond with you, nothing wrong with that...That's how it is. We search for people who compliment us the most. If they've only been dating for such a short time, minimal damage done.
If he doesn't feel the same for you, just cut him out completely and never look back, because that is just trouble you don't need.
You'll make the right decision! Just remember how amazing you are, and that the gentleman needs to be clear on how he feels about you. If he is unsure, he doesn't deserve you. <3
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ever since my failed three year relationship, i don't exactly know how to get back on the dating horse. which is weird. but after having been in a relationship for so long, where my significant other knew everything about me ... its so hard trying to get through the awkward stage of learning each other.
urghhh! who does dating have to be so hard?! thank you for your awesome advice my wonderful brother. now i just have to work up the nerve to actually try and talk to him about it. cross your fingers and wish me luck.
ily. <3
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if I have feelings for a guy they go dormant once I find out he has a gf
even if I don't know her and we're not friends
girls are supposed to stick together. idk I guess I'm an idiot and the only girl who thinks I should have respect for my fellow woman; not like they ever show me the same sort of respect.
my feelings can come back once he's single (assuming it had nothing to do with my influence)
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I know you're not a skank
I know it sucks to like someone who is already taken
I'm just saying in those cases we tend to only think about our feelings and the guy, but we need to also consider the other girl's feelings. You said so yourself you know what it feels like to be that girl. You know it hurts. Why would you want to inflict that kind of pain onto another human being?
also, personally I believe in karma
I've seen it all too often in my life
I've been bit myself quite a few times
no fun
I'm not saying "the right thing" to do is to not allow anything to happen between you two. Just don't MAKE something happen you know? It should not be a direct result of something you said or did to sway that guy's mind. If he likes you back he can decide on his own to end things with his current girl in favor of you.
Besides, think about it. If him leaving his gf for you is something that you had to convince him or otherwise sway him to do, do you really wanna be with someone like that?
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