So much has happened so quickly, it's like my head's still spinning. Up and down and back and forth and the next thing I know I feel like the whole world's turned inside out
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How lucky you are, to find love. Aiden sounds wonderful. I confess, all this appeals to the romantic part of me. Forbidden love always does make the blood thrill and sing, no
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Something that came to mind while reading this, is that it would really hurt Aiden (in my opinion) if he found out about your secret on accident. I believe that he would feel hurt and betrayed if you did not tell him directly and he finds out some other way. Any possible future you have with this guy could be messed up if things go out of your control and he finds out.
I know you are worried about him not being able to handle he truth, but I think that it would be much worse if he finds out in a way that is not gentle and gives him time to think it over.
Think of it this way, the longer you know him and the longer you wait to tell him could mean disaster. You want to trust him, and I can bet he wants to trust you. If you wait a long time, even if you give him hints, it could cause issues in the end.
I hope that I am giving helpful advice. I would hate to make your head spin even more. If it spins to much, it will be hard to stay upright when it stops. :)
A bit sleepy, but still tryingvipplerJanuary 21 2007, 08:52:59 UTC
Believing in and being able to acknowledge a reality are two different things. If he has to piece it together he might be more prepared to accept you truths but that doesn't mean it'll be any easier for you if he decides to lose his everlovin' mind about it.
I understand why you're hesitant about going back and forth on this--it's a huge part of you and confiding might seem the best way to build a foundation in this relationship--but it's, again, a huge part, and a very different part if I might add, of who you are. Too much of you to be giving away without expecting something bad, or at least preparing for it. Even if you're doing it in small bits, you're putting your hopes and, in the bad scenerio, setting yourself up for a long fall. I'd like to spare you that part of it by just putting it out there, just so you don't rush in
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Why did you guys completely change the storyline? Blood and chocolate is my favorite book and it bothers me that you guys changed vivian's whole life. You killed off her mother, changed the whole reason why vivian is with gabriel and aiden. You added a chocolate shop into the storyline which makes no sense to the book.
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I know you are worried about him not being able to handle he truth, but I think that it would be much worse if he finds out in a way that is not gentle and gives him time to think it over.
Think of it this way, the longer you know him and the longer you wait to tell him could mean disaster. You want to trust him, and I can bet he wants to trust you. If you wait a long time, even if you give him hints, it could cause issues in the end.
I hope that I am giving helpful advice. I would hate to make your head spin even more. If it spins to much, it will be hard to stay upright when it stops. :)
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I understand why you're hesitant about going back and forth on this--it's a huge part of you and confiding might seem the best way to build a foundation in this relationship--but it's, again, a huge part, and a very different part if I might add, of who you are. Too much of you to be giving away without expecting something bad, or at least preparing for it. Even if you're doing it in small bits, you're putting your hopes and, in the bad scenerio, setting yourself up for a long fall. I'd like to spare you that part of it by just putting it out there, just so you don't rush in ( ... )
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