girl, things like that usually happen.. I know you have heard of it, but you definately didn't think that it would happen to you. Since you are the one who pays for everything, why don't you move out on your own, it sounds like you would have the money too, prolly even a little extra. Just put some thought into it and secretly start taking care of it little by little, then one day tell him if he doesn't get his act straight that you are leaving. If he doesn't get straight, then you got somewhere to go, if he does then you did what you needed to do, and everything is all good.:) It sounds like a good plan to me. You do need to get out, you have a lot of shit on your mind, RUNAWAY!!! i love you, hope to see you soon!!
It's easier said than done. He's got me on lock basically-as embarassing as that is. I can't go anywhere or do anything without him flippin out about me not telling him beforehand. I dunno...I also can't put my money aside because he's kind of controlling my money situations too. I don't even get to keep any of my paycheck...He just takes it from me and pays his bills. I dunno. He isn't abusive or anything but for some reason I'm scared of him....
Hey girlie. I am sorry. I wish I could help. I bought Peanut a little outfit. Hopefully he can still fit into it. I have not sent it because I was hoping to give it to you in person. I am sorry Mark is acting how he is. I just hope you are not staying with Mark, for Peanut's sake, cause the way it seems to me, he would be better away from him. You are being a wonderful mother. I am proud of you. An example of a bad mother is Cindy Wiedeman (sp), her mother takes care of Ashley (her baby), she went off and married a guy she knew for a month. She doesnt have anything to do with her. That is sad. Mark needs to grow up and start taking responsibility of his child. He took part in making him, he needs to take part in taking care of him. I can't wait to see you and Peanut. If you wanna go out and have fun a night you are here, I will be more than happy to watch after him, to give you a break. I might even get Matt to help, you know, give him practice ;-) I love you girlie. If you need me for anything call me 300-5703... Let me know when you
( ... )
I'm sure Matt would love that. The good thing about Peanut is that he hardly ever cries...He loves women too. lol
I know in my heart that Mark and I aren't going to last forever, but Heather I'm honest to God scared of him. I don't know why. I'm scared of his reactions to everything and also his ability to control me. I dunno...I'll figure something out. Thanks sweetie! I'll see you soon...I'll post when I find out when I'm coming down, k?
Do not be scared of him. Guys are not worth it to give them the satisfaction of even slightly being afraid of them. If he EVER lays a hand on you are peanut I swear to god, he will go down. Do not let him manipulate you. You are a strong women.. you do not need a man totell you what to do. I love you girlie. Nitey nite.
Hey...Yas, you are such a strong person and you can make it out on your own. I honestly had no idea what you were going through until I read this. It sounds like Mark doesn't deserve you. You can do much better and find a guy who won't steal all of your money or try to control you. I wish you and Peanut all of the best. If you ever need anything, please don't hesitate to call. I know it's been a while, but I will always be here for you. I also wanted to let you know how proud I am of you for having the strength and ability to maintain a job and raise a son. You deserve the best and one day you'll get it.
Comments 11
Reply
I think i may runaway...sounds like a plan eh?
Reply
Reply
Reply
I know in my heart that Mark and I aren't going to last forever, but Heather I'm honest to God scared of him. I don't know why. I'm scared of his reactions to everything and also his ability to control me. I dunno...I'll figure something out. Thanks sweetie! I'll see you soon...I'll post when I find out when I'm coming down, k?
love you hun.
Reply
~Heather
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment