So here is an update on everything....
The doctors FINALLY called back after me and my mom kept calling them and bugging them. They said that nothing was wrong with me that the blood work came back perfect.... so then y am i losing weight and feeling like crap... well no one knows but they said if the losing weight (they didnt say anything about feeling sick and the headaches but o well) keeps up for the rest of this month then i have to come back in and get lots more serious test done! Gotta love when the doctors dont even know whats wrong with me!! But they did tell my mom that i have had mono before bc i have the anti thingys built up in my blood so i cant get it again and they only way that u get the anti thingys is if you have had it before. Weird thing is, i never have felt like i have had mono so i must have had a light case of it (which is great). My mom was kinda freaked out by this bc mono normally kills the person for a while and they are really sick and everythign and she kinda feels like she missed me being sick and its her fault. But i told her that i never felt sick or anything so its all good.
My dad, well he came home on tuesday and was still in a little pain when he got home but i guess that stuff that they got him is working great bc he is up and moving around, took a shower (which i have no idea how he did it because he cant use his left arm at all) and he is already wanting to go back to work on monday (just to sit there and boss people around and make them do the stuff he wanted them to do like always). But he is joknig around and seems to be doing GREAT now!!
School is still really stressful and my mom said that im gonna die bc of over stressed (which is true, stress can kill you) but everything is coming to an end bc i get out like the 6th of dec. and my next semester doesnt start until like jan 19 or somehting like that. so i will haev a nice long break to relax before going back to the crazy stressful place (school)!!
Work is strating to become easier bc the job i haev worked at forever is more or less (they kinda said i could but i do it anyways) letting me come in late when i dont feel good or not come in at all. and then the newer job just said come in whenever i can. i dont really have set times to come in so i havent been going in as much to try and get all my school work done.
basically.... everything seems to be kinda turning around but there are still those little things that set me off and still stress me out or mess with my emotions!! but hey, this is a few things off my shoulders for now!!