First thing, look at this as an opportunity to move on. Keep positive and try not to dwell on it for too long. I know you feel betrayed and abandoned, but you have to keep going on with your life. Your right, it is not fair, but that, sadly is part of life. The very next thing you should do is check the bulletin boards around campus, and the campus paper. There is always someone looking for a roommate. You should try and get out of that situation as soon as you can. While you are taking that step, find a few people you trust, and set up three or four days of crash space. I think that your dad will not mind having you around for a few days. I know now this is far from sage advice, but it is the best that I can give.
James may be looking for a flat mate, you might try talking to him. I was thinking of finding work and saving to move in maybe at some point once we find a place, but your situation is in dire need of more immediate attention.
I can't believe this. This pisses me off. I thought you and Dave were tighter than that. I can't believe that he'd continue to allow her to rule over you like this. I thought this bullshit was over with. *huff* You deserve far better. His girlfriend or not, I don't give a shit. This isn't right. I'm not generally one to judge, but it causes me to severly question his integrity, much as I care for him.
James's LJ SN is smiling_oddling, and # is 336-403-0655. Hope this helps. I can say without doubt he's an awesome, very dear friend who always does whatever he can to be there if you have need [and is infamous for his mad skillz of making cheesecake, or so it is rumoured ;)]
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The very next thing you should do is check the bulletin boards around campus, and the campus paper. There is always someone looking for a roommate. You should try and get out of that situation as soon as you can.
While you are taking that step, find a few people you trust, and set up three or four days of crash space. I think that your dad will not mind having you around for a few days.
I know now this is far from sage advice, but it is the best that I can give.
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I can't believe this. This pisses me off. I thought you and Dave were tighter than that. I can't believe that he'd continue to allow her to rule over you like this. I thought this bullshit was over with. *huff* You deserve far better. His girlfriend or not, I don't give a shit. This isn't right. I'm not generally one to judge, but it causes me to severly question his integrity, much as I care for him.
James's LJ SN is smiling_oddling, and # is 336-403-0655. Hope this helps. I can say without doubt he's an awesome, very dear friend who always does whatever he can to be there if you have need [and is infamous for his mad skillz of making cheesecake, or so it is rumoured ;)]
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